Delusional Boyfriend Refuses To Split The IKEA Bill With GF For Their Shared Home

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    Font - AITA for going to IKEA with my girlfriend and then refusing to pay half?
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    Font - My girlfriend(23F) and I(24M) just moved in together yesterday. I moved into her apartment that she had shared with her roommate before I moved in. So the apartment was half furnished since her roommate took half of everything.
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    Font - I lived in an incredibly small bachelor style studio so the only things I really had was a queen bed, a couch (that she hated) and a tv. We agreed to keep my bed and bed frame since she had a full.
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    Human body - She suggested we go to ikea to restock the house and she was super excited about it. When we got there she filled our entire cart with furniture, kitchen and bathroom stuff.
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    Font - She was asking my opinion on stuff and I was happy to give it but I saw the bill racking up pretty quickly. She ended up getting so much stuff that I saw as pointless. Like bathroom rugs, a soap dispenser, a dresser even though she has one, she got a second matching beside table for my side of the
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    Human body - bed, some art for the apartment and TWO giant rugs! One for the bedroom and one for the living room. And this is just some of the stuff I didn't think we needed. There was plenty more.
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    Human body - We ended up having two full carts of stuff and before we even went to checkout she said "everything else we can just get on Amazon." I was genuinely in shock she thought we needed even more then all of this crap.
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    Font - But we went to checkout and just like I thought the total was almost $1,400. She asked the cashier if we could split the bill half way on two cards and I was horrified. I told her no way was a I paying half for all of this. She looked surprised and we
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    Human body - quickly began to argue. She told me this was for the both of us but I disagreed and said I didn't need half of this stuff. After about 5 minutes of arguing and holding up the line she paid and we left.
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    Font - The entire hour ride home we argued and when we got home I was given the silent treatment after being called a cheap jerk. Am I the asshole here??
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    Font - Temporary_Badger · 3 days ago 3 23 S Pooperintendant [62] YTA. If you thought things were too expensive or too much, the time to say so was while shopping. She was asking your opinion and you agreed to the purchases. Why on earth did you just assume she was paying for everything? And a good portion of what you object to is honestly ridiculous- god forbid she want art or rugs in your apartment, right? 36.5k LJ Reply Share

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