If you want to have a successful first date with the girl you matched with on a dating app maybe it's best not to try and recreate Saw with the waitstaff. It's no wonder that he is single and probably will be for some time.
Unfortunately, that's exactly what u/throwaway000059's date tried to pull during their first date. Right off the bat, I'm going to agree with commenters and say that her only mistake was not walking away when he first slapped the cash on the table and started explaining what he was about to do.
Embarrassment or not, at that point you have to just cut your losses and walk away.
But let's say that, in this scenario, you do somehow make it to the end of the first date… Here she has made the right call. Props to her for sticking up for the waitress after the manipulative abuse her date put the waitress through. It also would have been hard to fault her for slapping him in the face when he said that you, "Can't always be nice to these people, it's not a respectable job".
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