Woman Threatens To Cut Mom off After She Brings A Dangerous Plant Home

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    Font - AITA My mom left me a gift that could've killed my cats.
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    Font - I live alone with two cats. I care about very little in this life, but I love those cats. One of these cats, Reno, likes to eat any plant he can access, so I make sure to vet out all plants that enter my home and make sure he can't access them.
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    Font - My mother entered my apartment while I wasn't there through the BACK DOOR, forcing open the screen to leave a gift on my desk: a vase of flowers, which included lilies. Lilies are deadly to cats if eaten and are strictly not allowed in my apartment due to the danger of Reno eating
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    Font - one. She has entered my home without my permission at least four other times, all for nonsense reasons, and each time I had to sternly remind her that there are boundaries, she cannot enter my home without permission. When I found
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    Font - permission. When I found out the lilies were there, I left a family gathering I was at immediately to remove them. By some miracle, Reno had not gotten to them yet. I took my mom aside and told
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    Font - her that I was done with her disrespecting me and my boundaries, that if this had ended tragically I would have cut most contact with her. She seemed seriously sorry for what she had done, but I feel that she only feels that was because of the possible repercussions. My sister thinks I was too hard on her. AITA?
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    Font - Thank you for all of the insight and opinions! Edit to answer some questions: Yes she knew my cat eats plants. I've told her before. I've also told her no lilies, and the reason why. She must have forgotten both.
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    Font - I live in an apartment with cheap locks and a wooden bar to hold the door shut. My mom had no spare key, but she does know if you tug and wiggle hard enough, the lock will disengage. That's what happened this time. Yes I know its dangerous, hence the wooden bar. Yes I've brought it up to my landlord, who supplied me with a longer wooden bar. Lol.
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    Rectangle - CREWCAPT_925 Partassipant [2] NTA change the locks and dont tell her about it Also we need a cat tax 494 Reply Share
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    Font - Quadruplicate Pooperintendant [55] NTA. Tell her to stop entering your house or property uninvited. Take away a key if she has one, put an extra door Lock in the back entrance of the house.
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    Font - Hellboundroar NTA. Change locks and explain to her why you did this, and that you're not going to give her a spare if she cannot respect your boundaries.
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    Font - opinionatedjars NTA. she is incredibly f cking invasive, letting herself into your home like that whenever she pleases, KNOWING you said no and that it passes you off. That's a complete disrespectful lack of giving a crap about what you have to say.

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