Women Reveal Top Dating Dealbreakers

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Mar 5, 2022 4:00 PM EST

Dating is a tricky human endeavor. It's hard to find someone that we finally click with, and if we do think it might be a good fit, it's not always obvious what the other person is thinking. Sure, we can communicate how we're feeling and attempt to define the relationship, but that might scare them off too early in the relationship, so it's best to just play it cool and see where it goes. Sometimes we're not even sure how we feel about a particular person, but still want to go out to see if the chemistry builds over time. However, there have definitely been dates that we went on that we immediately knew it was never going to work out. Some people make red flags obvious really early on, and honestly, we're grateful that they make it clear early on so that we don't waste more time with them. In an AskWomen thread, women discussed things that are total dealbreakers from the get-go. 

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    Font - r/AskWomen - Posted by u/dudecoolstuff 10 hours ago What are deal breakers for you in dating?
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    Oh gosh, there are so many. Where do we begin? 

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    Font - siggycassidy · 9 hr. ago Anyone who talks badly about their ex wives/mother of their children. Especially if said woman is looking after their kids more than 50% of the time.
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    If they're badmouthing their exes, they'll sure as heck bad mouth you down the line. Don't get it twisted. 

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    Font - richbunny_ · 8 hr. ago A partner who is rude to service workers. Anything else that tells me they wouldn't be nice to someone if they didn't think that person benefited them in any way.
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    Font - brattycanine · 6 hr. ago Men wit mommy issues. They're clear to see and i do not need the issues that come wit it. Also, if he doesn't hold a job longer than six months. Men that want to jump on living together. No.
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    Font - SouthWestWicked · 7 hr. ago Lying, cheating, badmouthing, poor hygiene, being mean, misogyny, hating children
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    Product - TheSeoulGirl · 6 hr. ago Ghosting, and then coming back (zombie- ing).
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    Font - johnwaynetasty · 3 hr. ago If they have an overly meddlesome or difficult family that they won't enforce boundaries with. Been there, never again.
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    Human body - Pi-seized · 2 hr. ago Anger issues - especially if he's unaware of it and isn't willing to work on it
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    Font - ConvivialWater369 · 7 hr. ago Not having anything to talk about, rush for the.."bed", bad chemistry, rudeness, misery, misogyny, pretending to be someone they're not just to impress and look more "manly"
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    Font - Bratatouillee · 8 hr. ago In terms of talking stage or first dates, definitely when they don't ask me any questions about myself. Having to be the sole driver of a conversation is exhausting and so is listening to someone make everything about themselves.
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    Font - cierachamere · 8 hr. ago · edited 8 hr. ago No communication, unreliable, too much too fast. Why did you match with me, sir? Also, low key racism.
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    Font - worldstarhaf · 5 hr. ago literally when they have no self respect or don't put effort into the relationship.
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