Crazy Mother Tries To Get Daughter's BF To Dump Her So She Can Pursue His Father

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    Font - r/AmltheAsshole u/aita-throwaway-4527 · 15h e 5 e1 3 2 2 AITA for calling my ex-wife a crazy bitch for trying to break our daughter and her boyfriend up so that she can start dating the boyfriend's dad?
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    Font - My (45m) ex (35f) and I have a daughter, Alana (16f). Alana has been dating Eric (18m) for about 8 months now. Things have been going well for them.
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    Art - My ex is active in Alana's school community and recently met Eric's dad (44m) at a recent school function. From what I understand, they hit it off and were moving in the direction of seeing each other.
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    Organism - That is until Eric's dad found out that my ex is the mother of his son's girlfriend. He thought things would be weird and awkward if they starting dating, so he made it clear to my ex that they were no longer a possibility and why.
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    Font - My ex did not take it well. According to what Alana told me later, her mom came home drunk one night and started mumbling at her about how she was a burden who always ruined her happiness. The next day, ex either didn't remember or pretended not to remember, and thanked Alana for taking care of her when she was drunk.
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    Font - But it didn't take long before my ex started telling Alana how she didn't think Eric was right for her, they've got a 2 year age gap and will be separated for at least that long when he went to college, and that it would be better to break it off now. Alana was upset and they got into a fight bad enough that she came to spend the night at my place. I told her that her mother was full of it, and as long as the guy's not hurting her, it's none of her mother's business who she dates.
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    Font - Things calmed down for a bit before suddenly escalating. Instead of simply telling my daughter it would be best to break up with Eric, ex started actively trying to sabotage the relationship. Examples include telling Alana she saw Eric with another girl, talking up and trying to introduce Alana to one of her friend's kids, and even stealing Alana's phone so that she could use it to text Eric that they were done.
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    Font - When I got the full story, I was livid. I called my ex to ask her what the f-ck she thought she was doing. She said her love life wasn't any of my business. I told her I don't care about her love life, I care about our daughter. Then I asked her why, if Eric's dad wouldn't be with her because of the kids relationship, would she think he would be okay with her breaking the kids up? She called me jealous and said he wouldn't know if I didn't tell him. I called her a crazy bitch just like Al
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    Font - Now, not only am I getting texts from her calling me abusive, but also her sister and her friends(who I assume don't have the true story) calling me the same. I try to ignore them, but it did get me thinking about whether I went to far when I lost my temper. I'm not a 16 year old like Alana who can't filter their thoughts from their mouth. AITA?
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    Font - OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I think I might be the asshole because I yelled at my ex-wife and called her a "crazy bitch" during a recent conflict that we had which could be considered by some as me being verbally abusive towards her.
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    Rectangle - FFBTheShow • 15h Asshole Enthusiast [5] 16 Awards NTA. Tell Eric's dad. Checkmate, crazy ex wife. G Reply 4 16k 3
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    Rectangle - TheVue221 · 15h Pooperintendant [67] NTA in this case. Alana needs to tell Eric EVERYTHING and ask that he pass it along to the dad to put an end to this Lifetime Movie . G Reply 1 3.6k 3 ...
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    Rectangle - Mean_Environment4856 · 15h Asshole Enthusiast [6] NTA. The abusive person is your ex. Please keep your kid safe and try to get her mother some help. G Reply 4 1.9k ...

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