Mom Neglects To Tell Babysitter About Allergy, Child Ends Up In Hospital

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    Font - AITA for being the reason my friend's daughter had to go to the hospital?
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    Font - I know the title sounds horrible but I don't know how else to put it. I am not a very busy person. I don't start college until September and I don't have a job, so not much to do.
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    Font - A few weeks ago my friend Alice (22F) came to my door with her daughter Milly (3F) and told me she really needs me. Apparently she had an emergency to attend to and she needed an urgent sitter. She didn't really ask and just gave me the kid and a bag of toys and books and told me she would be back in a few hours. I have no problem with this, Milly is a very sweet kid and she knows me well enough to be comfortable around me. Still it was a bit unexpected but I was going out to the cinema s
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    Font - Everything went smoothly, we watched a movie together, Milly seemed happy, and I was enjoying my time as well. Then we went to the park and I thought it would be nice to get us some ice cream. We both had vanilla swirls and she seemed to enjoy it for a bit but as soon as we got home she started throwing up and developed what seemed to be a rash. I thought maybe she got a bug or something and called her mom but when she didn't pick up I took her to the hospital.
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    Font - Apparently, Milly has a mild allergy to dairy. Alice did not tell me this. I have never seen Alice give her dairy but I thought that was a dietary choice and to be honest, I did not take that much notice to it. I never knew this explicitly. She was safe and nothing bad was going to happen to her but she was obviously very uncomfortable until the antihistamines kicked it. I kept calling Alice and she only picked up a few hours later and as soon as I told her we were at the hospital, she go
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    Font - I apologised many times, sent them cards and a present for Milly but apparently she has been telling our group of friends that I tried to hurt Milly and I should not be trusted around children. Some of our friends berated me for my lack of attention and told me I would have to carry the responsibility if anything worse had happened to Milly. I tried to explain I didn't know and nothing worse was going to happen and I did my best to help her but it still became a divisive event.
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    Font - AITA? Is it really all my fault? I really want what's best for Milly and I would never do anything to hurt her.
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    Font - Cautious-Damage7575 - 2 days ago I think neglecting to mention an allergy is the least of her problems. There is something deeply insane in the membrane. Accusing OP of attempted murder? Give me a break!
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    Organism - mouse_attack. 2 days ago A dairy allergy is a must-mention! It would have been extremely normal for any adult watching a child to pour the kiddo a glass of milk. What happened should have been easy to anticipate and obviously necessary to warn against. ΝΤΑ
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    Rectangle - OddAsk9838- 2 days ago Partassipant [1] OP, this person is not and has never been your friend. She sounds like a user and abuser. Stop apologizing and be done with her and her kid.
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    Font - chelledees - 2 days ago Seriously. Everyone around us knows my daughter has a shellfish allergy AND knows how to use her epipen. Op you're NTA. Your friend should've told you.
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    Font - mindful-bed-slug. 2 days ago Partassipant [1] ΝΤΑ The mom was irresponsible by not telling you about the allergy and she is projecting her guilt onto you. Any allergy mom knows better than to not tell a sitter about the allergy.

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