Women Disclose What Their Biggest Insecurities Are In A Romantic Relationship

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Jul 21, 2022 5:00 PM EDT

Entering into any new relationship can be scary, allowing the other person to get to know you on a deeper level. Even others who have been in a relationship for 3+ months, acting like your true self around the other person can be a struggle for some. Sometimes we feel like we have to put on a different face or act in front of our partner, but maybe this is a sign that we shouldn't be with that person? It's natural of course to get those butterflies and feel nervous, but if we have to change who we are as a person then something isn't right. If your partner doesn't embrace and come to love your insecuritiesthen ladies he ain't the one for you. Insecurities will never fade fully but with time and patience they can become less important in your romantic relationships. If your partnerdoesn't lift you up but instead picks on those insecurities, leave immediately. 

Scroll through some of the responses below to hear what insecurities women share in their romantic relationships. Although most may seem very depressing, take this as a sign to recognize your insecurities and set some romantic relationship goals for yourself! You may relate to more of the commentsthan you think. 

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  • 01
    Font - What is your biggest insecurity in romantic relationships?
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    Nothing, I'm perfect. Jk I won't lie to you, lets read more. 

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    Font - Low_Egg_7606. 8 days ago 3 Being the only person they want or that I'm pretty enough. I don't know how to fix it. I don't have an answer.
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    Its true, we're all human and get bored easily…

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    Font - oingaboingo 8 days ago You fix it by learning not to care so much. Those photogenic girls have their insecurities, too. Male lust is over-rated. Took me years to finally realize that. I'm old now, but was attractive when I was young. All it got me was stupid stares, cat calls, unwanted attention, used, and men just assuming I was a stuck up "b." Women think men are appreciating their looks like fine art. They aren't. All they are thinking about is getting laid.
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    Electric blue - beeekeeepeeer - 9 days ago That I won't be able to sexually (visually or physically) satisfy them when/if it gets to that point.
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    Font - lololynnrich. 8 days ago That they are in the relationship for self serving reasons such as feeling a need to be with someone, and that they don't actually value me or share interests with me. They're just in it to get rid of their loneliness.
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    Font - MJSP88 · 8 days ago . edited 8 days ago That I am boring/have nothing to contribute to conversation and I am not attractive or good in bed. Edited to add: I've been told that it's just sexual incompatibility and that's not to be a shamed of. It will work when you find the right partner. When you can communicate and and understand eachother wants and needs.
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    Font - whatsernamme 8 days ago 9 I always feel that I like who I'm dating more than they like me. I wish it was the opposite or equal.
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    Font - curly-hair07 - 8 days ago! Gaining weight and not being attractive anymore. I gained ten lbs since meeting my SO. That got me to jump to working out and sticking to it.
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    Font - lilcyberskunk. 8 days ago i worry lot about being too... much. too needy, too energetic, too demanding, too excitable, too eager, etc. i tend to downplay my feelings/desires and i'm really thankful to have a new partner who can tell if i'm doing that and who tries to get the real idea of how i'm feeling <3
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    Font - throw-away-518.8 days ago My looks and my awkwardness. My ex dumped me over my looks and I have a serious inability to flirt with guys or get them to show interest in me. I'm too awkward and always screw it up.
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    Font - exotic143 8 days ago The other person take advantage of my respectful behaviour. It happened too many times.
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    Font - jcuhlri - 8 days ago Having too much anxiety about "where we stand". I work on it by staying in the moment, and also remembering we are two separate people who come together, not one entity that needs to be perfect.
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    Font - mmadness26. 8 days ago I guess fully trusting someone. I've yet to fully trust a man I'm romantically involved with.
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    Font - Straight Law_7934 - 8 days ago My emotional disconnection. If we have an argument, I look like I don't care which makes it so much worse. I do care, I just can't show it.
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