Guy Avoids Running Into Ex While On Vacation, Only To Be Stuck Together On The Same Flight Home

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    Font - AITA for not answering my ex girlfriends calls while on vacation? I know the title screams NTA but given the actual situation I think I may have acted wrongly. So I (20M) have been on vacation for a little over a month traveling around Europe, I saved up money for a long time to do this and it's a huge dream of mine. I found out my ex girlfriend (who I am not on great terms with) was going to be in paris at the same time as me, and we texted a few months ago acknowledging it. This was bas
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    Font - However, once I arrived, I really just didn't want to see her. It kept reminding me about bad memories from our relationship so I decided not to see her. I was seeing some friends in a part of the city I didn't have WiFi so I didn't check my phone for a few days and when I got service again I had several messages from my ex saying things like "are you in paris?" And "do you want to get drinks?" And seven missed calls across all my social medias. Honestly at this point I just ignored it. I
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    Font - However (surprise surprise) we have the SAME FLIGHT HOME. She sat next to me at the gate and got upset saying she could have been in trouble and she thought my phone had been stolen and all sorts of stuff. But I honestly wasn't worried at the time since A. She was in paris with friends and B. I don't think it was my responsibility if she was in trouble (which she wasn't, she just wanted drinks I guess). so AITA?
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    Font - hfc10756 hr. ago NTA she's acting as if you're still together which you're not. 44 Reply Share Report Save Follow
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    Font - PurpuraLiber 5 hr. ago Partassipant [4] NTA. You did not make any concrete plans. And since you are not travelling together it is not your problem if she is in trouble - she was there with friends. I hope you had a wonderful time in Europe! 255 Reply Share Report Save Follow
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    Font - BigBayesian 4 hr. ago Colo-rectal Surgeon [37] NTA. One of the great things about being exes is you don't owe each other a callback. If you had gotten the texts it would have been polite to respond, but you didn't, so you didn't. I'd just say "I didn't get the texts. Since we're not dating any more and not talking much, it didn't occur to me to go out of my way to seek reception to check my texts. I'm really sorry if that impacted your trip. Although if it did, I wonder why it did. Could
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    Rectangle - bonshaa 2 hr. ago "Eh, maybe" ain't a plan. Considering how bad their breakup sounded, I think it's rude of her to be pressuring OP into doing anything with her. 11 ↓ Reply Share Report Save Follow

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