Bride Fires Maid of Honor for Being a Buzzkill

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    Font - AITA for kicking my MOH out of my wedding party because she was being a buzz kill? My (27f) best friend Kathy (26f) is a professional wedding planner and has helped host hundreds of weddings. We've basically grown up together and having a professional also help me with a wedding free of cost was very ideal. I made sure to shower her with gifts to repay her for the help she offered throughout that journey. Now the wedding is in a month and in two weeks its my bachelorette weekend. Kathy no
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    Font - The girls told me she had a very valid reason but it was not their story to tell so I should ask her directly. I asked her and she replied "Look, you've made some requests for your bachelorette party and I respect everything you want to do but there are some things there that are off limits for me and some of the stuff such as the strippers I've booked for you and some other activities are crossing boundaries regarding me and my own fiancé's relationship. So I made sure to arrange everyth
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    Font - I was truly heartbroken and tried to suck it up but as the days went by instead of feeling more at ease with that thought I got more upset. I tried to talk to her about it to change her mind but she wasn't having it. She later also said that" just to warn me" that she won't drink any alcohol to the wedding because she doesn't want to get sick because of it since she's very lightheaded. I got very disappointed and at that moment I straight up told her I don't want her as a MOH if all she's
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    Font - ginselfies 2 hr. ago 23 Partassipant [1] So let me get this straight. Your so- called best friend, who typically gets paid to plan weddings, has been planning yours free of charge. And you kicked her out of the wedding party because she personally opted out of strippers and drinking with no pressure to anybody else to do the same? Yup. YTA.
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    Font - Haunted PickleJar 26 min. ago Also there are very real medical reasons people can't drink. Though any reason someone doesn't want to drink is valid reason. Pressuring people to drink is gross.
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    Font - Extended Spike Protein 40 min. ago Bridezilla alert! Vote Reply Share
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    Font - Temporary_Badger 2 hr. ago Commander in Cheeks [287] YTA. She did a fantastic job planning everything to you the way you wanted, even though she wouldn't get to enjoy it. She was in no way judgmental of what you wanted, just politely bowed out because it was beyond her boundaries. But you've decided the main criteria for being your friend is enjoying strippers and getting drunk. So good luck with the rest of your adult life and marriage, I'm sure that's all going to work out great.

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