Mother Picks up Her 11-Month-Old From Her Sister-in-law, Only To Find That She Gave Him a Disgusting Haircut

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    Font - Posted by u/Odd Ford 22 hours ago AITAH for being upset my SIL cut my 11 month old son's hair for the 1st time and hanging up on her apology Not the A-hole Hello There - Am I the a-hole for hanging up on my sister in laws 'apology'? My husband (35M) and I (34F) have 3 sons (3 years, 11 months x 2- twins). We recently had birthdays and treated each other to hotel stays without the children. My family watched our boys for the stay I planned for him and his family watched the boys for the st
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    Font - The problem is, when we picked up the boys, our smallest twin boy had his bangs cut. (And not very well). I asked if they cut his hair and all was silent. One of the aunties then proclaimed it was her fault - no one else's and it wasn't a cut, it was just a little trim. But totally on her. (No apology.) I had a feeling she may have cut his hair because she had sent a photo of them looking out a window earlier that morning and his hair looked off. My husband was irritated with me for menti
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    Font - My husband is super worried about being cut off from his family and causing a scene so I just responded with "I guess he just got his first hair cut at Gs" (and again got reminded, it was just a trim). Not wanting to 'cause a scene' I took the boys and changed their diapers and got them ready to go home. When we got home and the hair spray they had styled the boys with wore off, I could truly see the damage done....and I cried. I cried because of how terrible it looked and I cried because
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    Font - The next morning, my husband and I ended up getting into a fight and I told him how disrespectful it was for his family to have cut our son's hair, without permission, and without apology. He swears his sister apologized and then proceeded to talk to me about how rude my family is so I have no room to talk..... Then he angerly called his sister and shoved his phone at me saying I needed to tell her how I felt. So I did. I told her I cried when we got home and I was just really hurt that s
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    Font - UPDATE SIL just called to apologize again because I told my husband she would not be watching our kids unsupervised (without me or him - his sisters and mom don't count as supervision) unless I get a genuine apology. She proceeded to tell me she is genuinely sorry BUT she thinks I am overreacting and doesn't understand why I'm so upset. She said she wouldn't have done it if she knew I was going to get so emotional and make such a big deal about it and she is not responsible for my feeling
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    Font - I told her she had no domain in my feelings, my home, or my marriage and that I know my son's hair will grow back and he will have more haircuts. I'm not trying to drive a wedge and I still love her and my son and that maybe, when she actually has a kid of her own, she will be able to empathize with me more about what transpired. Until then, I accept the apology. WIBTA if I sent her a link to this post for saying I am over reacting..... JK - won't be doing that - I think I just need to be
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    Font - serenasplaycousin A hole Aficionado [15] - 21 hr. ago NTA. It was a big deal and she knows it, that is why she didn't. That is why she didn't save the hair. Reply Share 210
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    Font - curiouserthangeorge 21 hr. ago Parta sipant [1]] NTA! WTAF?! That is assault! She cut your child's hair without permission? She could literally be arrested for assault. Did she have a reason!? Like did a sucker get stuck in his hair? Or like his finger twirled around in it and she had to cut it out?? Or did she just not like how he looked???? You aren't angry enough!!!! This is lunacy!!! 155 Reply Share

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