'I held it for 40 minutes and it got really bad': Couple fights after girlfriend goes to the bathroom in his car

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    Font - AITA for peeing in my BF car? We were on our way back from an event and I had gotten a bit tipsy it was about an hour drive home. I am 24F and he is 27M..on the way back we hit bad traffic from a car accident basically a parking lot and I really had to pee. I held it for 40 minutes and it got really bad... I told my BF I couldn't hold it. I found my hydro flask and emptied it. He told me to please not in car.. and to just do it on shoulder of road.. I refused and said I didn't wanna be se
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    Font - Comprehensive-Law740. 4 hr. ago edited 3 hr. ago Your boyfriend would rather you dropped your pants & pee'd in front of how many strangers? How many strangers does he want looking at your naked butt? Flashing their headlights at you & peeping their car horns? Only guys are going to call you an AH for this - it's all right for them, easy as pie, but it's simply not that easy for women. You paid to have the car cleaned - no damage done. ΝΤΑ 45.7K Reply Share
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    Font - ARTobz 4 hr. ago I came here looking for this comment. Ladies have limited options. No one bats an eye when a man pees into a bottle in his car. When it's an emergency you gotta do what you gotta do and the side of the highway really isn't the place. NTA. 1.6k Reply
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    Font - BrainsAdmirer. 3 hr. ago Plus no man ever is told to "just hold it until you find a bathroom". If a mon or boy is even slightly uncomfortable, they are encouraged to pees on the side of the road or on a tree, in the corner of a building, or in a bottle. For women, especially after childbirth, holding it is nearly impossible as well as harmful to her kidneys. 879 Reply
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    Font - Sea_Discount_2617. 4 hr. ago NTA and wondering if everyone who says you're the hole and should've gone on the side of the road realizes that public urination is illegal and you'll definitely get arrested if a cop drives by. And if they decide it's indecent exposure, surprise, it's a crime! Your boyfriend's asking you to leave the car put you at unnecessary risk. A couple dribbles of pee is easily cleaned, and you got the car professionally cleaned at your expense anyway, so as far as I ca
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    Font - cv819 3 hr. ago especially considering it was an accident blocking the traffic, emergency vehicles are extremely likely to be driving up the shoulder so it's dangerous and illegal, even if an emergency vehicle doesn't come by, you're still in full view of the line of traffic around you like ???? Reply 484
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    Font - VisceralVixen69. 4 hr. ago Okay hold up. NTA It is just pee. People forget that peeing outside oftentimes is a ticketable offense, kr worse if you get a cop in a bad mood. And you had his car detailed! Pee is not a smell that is challenging to remove. The fact that everyone here is giving you for it is sad. Had you been pregnant, I bet the reaction would have been different. 992 Reply Share
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    Font - Legitimate-Meal-2290 4 hr. ago NTA. I can't with all these people saying you should have got out in bumper to bumper traffic. Just an absolute lack of common sense. You even had it cleaned afterwards. 399 Reply Share
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    Font - trixen2020 4 hr. ago Oh my lord, men pee on or in whatever suits their fancy like every 4 seconds but god forbid a woman do it. You were desperate (I personally know how an emergency like that HURTS), you tried to pee into something, it's an offence to pee in a public place - ie: you could have been ticketed if cop was nearby -- AND you had his car detailed. NTA. 199 Reply Share
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    Font - bluecat823 3 hr. ago NTA!!! I feel very strongly about this. Depending on the area you were in, it could have been impossible to just walk off the side of the road a little bit due to hazards or just the way the road is set up. It could have been dangerous, you could have been exposed to other cars, it would have just sucked. Men don't understand how difficult it is to pee in the woods as a woman. If you were wearing jeans it would have been a whole ordeal. YOU PEED IN A HYDRO FLASK IT WA
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    Font - He carpet cleaned it out and it's no biggie. There's no reason for your bf to be so upset when you had no other choice and you fixed the problem after. Your bf sucks lol 114 Reply Share
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    Font - Legs27 3 hr. ago NTA. I wonder how many people saying YTA are men... Woman here. I can't imagine many situations more humiliating than pulling my pants and underwear down in front of literally hundreds of people and then squatting. Lots of people saying "go further from the road" but some highways have those wall dividers very close to the right lane or the median with a full view of the other lane... we don't know what you're working with. Regardless, it's illegal and humiliating. You di
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    Font - Normal-Height-8577 Agreed. Also, how safe would it be to move away from the car if the 3 hr. ago congestion clears up at the wrong time? It's not like they were safely parked or in a layby. Either you risk your boyfriend having to drive off without you, or you risk getting run over by an impatient driver as you cross lanes to get back to the car. And as for the people apparently advocating a time machine approach with "well of course you should have all this kit in the car just in case...
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    Font - No. The choice was 1) pee in front of everyone exposing yourself in public (technically a crime), or 2) pee in the car and get it cleaned afterwards if you miss the flask. There wasn't a third option. 43 Reply Share
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    Font - Far-Journalist-1-3 hr. ago NTA you held it 40 minutes, you were tipsy, there were probably cops around (getting naked enough to pee in public is illegal lol), and you had his car detailed after it happened he's just being an AH at that point. 94 Reply Share
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    Rectangle - angiiess 4 hr. ago . NTA and how anyone says otherwise is ridiculous. It would be indecent exposure if she did it at the side of the road
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    Font - Et NAVY SigSauerPower320 4 hr. ago Pooperintendant [57] ΝΤΑ At first I thought you went in the car.. as in, on a seat. What you did is normal.
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    Font - D Breage MutantsAtTableNine 4 hr. ago. edited 4 hr. ago Partassipant [3] INFO - what were you wearing, pants or a dress/skirt? This pertains to how easily you could've peed outside without actually exposing yourself. ETA - given OP's response, I'm gonna go against the grain and say NAH. She was wearing jean shorts and couldn't pee on the highway without exposing herself to dozens upon dozens of strangers. She paid to have his car cleaned and made amends. 49 Reply Share ghatyii OP 4 hr. ag

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