'It was with the colleague I was told not to worry about': Phoney Fiancé Breaks Off Engagement With Soon To Be Wife But Not Before Cheating On Her First

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elina lee
Jan 11, 2023 12:00 PM EST

We've said it before and we'll say it again - cheaters suck! If there's one thing about us it's that we absolutely hate cheaters. We think that this may be the one occurrence in life where the context is not important because no matter what - cheating is cheating. Sure, you can be in an unhappy relationship filled with toxicity and manipulation - but why stay? Just leave them and then go on and do whatever you want. 

But the worst kind of cheating is when the two are supposed to be 'happily in love' and the other party gets completely blindsided by the affair. And guess what we have in store for y'all today? Exactly just that. A happy-go-lucky couple that had huge plans for the future… or so the woman thought. The man, he actually had other plans. He had plans to cheat, to lie, and completely manipulate. We encourage you to have a read because the replies are hella inspirational! 

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  • 01
    Font - Posted by u/didiletyouknow 23 hours ago Fiancé broke off our engagement via a phone call and is now sleeping with his colleague who I was told not to worry about
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  • 02
    Font - I was with my fiancé for 6 years. We had our whole life established, and had planned our wedding and future together. We were equal partners. We both worked, with good paying jobs. We had a home together, two cats, and both wanted children.
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    We'll never be able to understand how men can quite literally go on building futures with women all while cheating behind her back. Like… dude… why?? Why even go through all the effort? 

  • 03
    Font - He called me whilst I was visiting my Mum to tell me he doesn't want the relationship anymore, a few days before Christmas. He then ghosted me since. I'm completely heartbroken, angry, and confused. Last night I found out he was sleeping with someone else as our joint Amazon account informed me that the "sex lube" he ordered had been delivered to an Amazon locker.
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  • 04
    Font - I confronted him, and found out it was the colleague I was always told not to worry about. I'm trying so hard to push through this, and my family and friends have been amazing, but the rug has been pulled from under me and I don't understand what's happening. I just needed to voice it to strangers. Thanks all.
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    To anyone reading this and going through the same thing - you can do this! It was totally his loss and you just consider this as a blessing in disguise. 

  • 05
    Font - Unable_Duty7809 - 22 hr. ago I know it may be a bit early for silver linings but at least you found out now, before kids, before 10 years of additional investment. The person you thought you were with does not exist. You have now seen who they really are and quite frankly you deserve better.
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    Font - Cominella 19 hr. ago I could have written this myself a few months ago. Was with my partner for six years, had a house, planned wedding, both worked, no kids but two pets. He left me very suddenly, for a girl he told me not to worry about. It was shocking. I didn't eat or sleep for days. The day before he left, we decorated for Halloween and baked cookies together and got in a play fight because I kept pinching his butt. I never saw it coming.
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  • 07
    Font - It's been several months, like I said. So hopefully you'll take this as a hopeful message from your future self. I am so, so much happier now than I was those first few weeks. I am now comfortable sleeping alone, and don't miss the snoring. The house stays cleaner. My food and electricity bill is a third of what it was.
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  • 08
    Font - From what I've heard from his best friend, he's miserable. He gained weight in the past few months, lost his job, and took out loans to pay for the cheapest, shittiest apartment in a metropolitan area. He's asked everyone for money, and his mom recently had a meltdown screaming at him for leaving me. He asked for me back. Of course I said no. At the beginning of this mess, I was so desperately hurt and wanted to try to work things out. It is my saving grace he refused.
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  • 09
    Font - Ok-Cauliflower-8897 22 hr. ago I hope his sex lube shipping is constantly delayed
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  • 10
    Font - Comfortable_Ad148 17 hr. ago May he accidentally use gorilla glue instead
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  • 11
    Font - Brave_anonymous1 16 hr. ago I hope the orders were mixed up and they sent him jalapenos sauce in similar packaging.
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    Font - gurlwithdragontat2 · 19 hr. ago Thank goodness you found out now! You deserve better. He's clearly gone to drier pastures, but dry grass burns and karma is very real.
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