Woman Catfishes Her Own Boyfriend To See If He'd Cheat On Her, It Backfires Because Not Even An Hour Later He Responds With The Intention To Meet Up

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elina lee
Feb 4, 2023 3:00 PM EST

If there's anything men have - it's the audacity. They'll lie to you and act suspicious. And at the very same time, they'll gaslight you and make you think you're crazy for getting jealous or snooping through their phones. We repeat - the audacity! 

At this point in time, it's never 'news' when a man cheats on his other half. In fact, it's kind of expected. They'll tell you LOTS of stories to try and make it seem okay like, 'boys will be boys' or 'it's part of our nature'. But if you ask us - it's complete bull. One thing we'll never be able to wrap our minds around is why people even cheat. If you're not happy - just go. It's very simple and shouldn't take a lot of brain power to comprehend. But apparently - it does. 

Today we're bringing you a story about yet another cheater with a whole lotta audacity. Suspicious girlfriend knew in her gut that she was dating a cheater and decided to put him up to the test. Let's just say he didn't come prepared. 

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    Font - Posted by u/Altruistic-Top-7044 22 hours ago I made a fake profile to see if my boyfriend would cheat
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    Font - Last night I made a fake Facebook profile to see if my boyfriend would engage with it. I began sending him sexually explicit texts/photos. I feel like the biggest bitch ever. I love this man. Can't imagine my life without him wanna marry him someday but for some reason I keep doing things like this. Obsessing over his instagram and who he follows (he followed a bunch of porn accounts) that drove me absolutely nuts. He doesn't even know this is a struggle for me. I'm to ashamed to talk abo
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    Font - I'm just stewing silently. He thinks I'm just a little possessive or can tell that I'm slightly jealous/insecure but doesn't know anything about this. He hasn't seen/responded to the messages on Facebook. But I just feel so disgusted with myself I wasn't like this before we started dating or with my ex. I never once went through my exes followers or cared about his likes on insta. Idk what is wrong with me. I find myself feeling more and more insecure with myself as days goes by but I don
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    Font - UPDATE Not even a full hour later he responded to the fake messages with a picture of his private area saying how hot the fake girl was and how he would like to meet up. I am in shock. Yes I made the fake account but for some reason I never ever ever thought he would actually respond I just thought I was being crazy and I was the one in the wrong. I am crushed. I'm just numb I don't even know how to react. He is literally upstairs in our bedroom. I'm in the downstairs bathroom.
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    The way our hearts sunk to our stomachs when we read this. We feel for her, truly. But as we always say, it's better you found out now rather than later. 

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    Font - Update 2: Well shit hit the actual fan last night. After my weird numbness breakdown I ran upstairs and he was in our bed and immediately lifted up the covers upon seeing me saying "come cuddle" DAWG WTF I started freaking tf out like crying/screaming at him to get the fuck out of MY house. He immediately knew what I was talking about and tried to tell me he knew it was me the whole time before he just started bawling. I told him to give me his phone and I went through it.
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    We repeat - the audacity of these men!!! 

    It's crazy that he can be smexting someone random on the internet and then 5 mins later be all lovey-dovey with you. Where is the loyalty??? 

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    Font - What a fucking joke. I had logged back into my normal account so wasn't able to see that he had sent a BUNCH of other messages of things he wanted to do to her times he wanted to hang out and fantasies of his. I asked him how many other times he has done this and he admitted to one other occasion but swore it was only online. He left to go stay with his parents at 4am and Went to my sisters for the night at about 6ish. I can't even stand to be in the house anymore. He's called me and text
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    Font - Obviously I am ashamed of my obsessive/anxious/insecure behavior but now I don't regret it like I said before I have never acted like this with any of my exes even when I knew they were talking to other girls. I don't know if it was my gut or if it just happened to work out for the best. I will be seeing a therapist I've already been using some of the online/video chat therapy things.
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    Font - hotmatzah 13 hr. ago . Cheating aside, how dumb are people who respond to stuff like this? Have they not heard of fb message sex blackmailing schemes? Obviously not thinking with his big brain
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    Font - canadasokayestmom 14 hr. ago. edited 6 hr. ago First of all, Don't let anyone gaslight you into thinking that what you did (creating the fake account to lure him) was somehow wrong or inappropriate. You had some strong gut feelings, so you did some investigating. You didn't break into his phone, or generally invade his privacy. Nothing you did, as far as I'm concerned is morally wrong.
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    Font - In fact, I think it would be much more morally reprehensible of you to have trust issues with someone, but disregard them and marry that person anyway. Wasting your time, their time, god knows how much money, and dragging along friends and family in the process.
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    Font - So what you did was not only right, but what was absolutely needed in this situation. He would have NEVER come clean if you hadn't have done this. Please please please don't take this loser back. It will 100% happen again. People like him crave attention and validation, and until he does some serious growing & maturing (which some people never do), he will continue to do it. They seek out the thrill of the chase, the rush of adrenaline when messaging people, and of course the dopamine hit
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    Font - Chirpy69 12 hr. ago Obviously he is in the wrong for going with it, and was willing to cheat so while I don't agree with your methodology, you are right to be angry and leave him. However, in the grand scheme of things - figure out how it's going to help YOU. An unpopular opinion, relationships are meant to be trusting as a default. By getting to know someone and subsequently entering into a committed relationship with them, it's not gonna be great for your mental health to "test" any par
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    Font - bad decisions sometimes. And before anyone says "it's irrelevant, he shouldn't have done it in the first place", I'm not arguing that, obviously he shouldn't have. But when you cross a street without looking both ways enough times, you're gonna get hit by a car eventually. Im legitimately saying this in relation to you as a person rather than you as a significant other to someone - really evaluate if your mental health can handle "catfishing" your next boyfriend to simply test his loyalty
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    Font - undercovertortoise 15 hr. ago There must have been other things he said or did to warrant this amount of distrust, enough where you created a fake profile but do yourself a favor and just break up with someone instead of trying to trap them. It doesn't matter if they are cheating or not, if you feel like you have to go to these lengths, it means you already don't trust them. And a relationship without trust is not a relationship
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    Font - LadyJPG 17 hr. ago Looks like you got your answer and your concerns were valid. I do hope that you work on your insecurities so that when you do meet the right person you can have healthy communication.
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