'The lady came back an hour later, asking for her $200 tip back' : Server baffled at Karen customer's strange breach of etiquette

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    Font - r/r/Tales From YourServer. Posted by Bartender u/KASchay 16 hours ago Customer asked for her tip back an hour later Short I didn't like that bactracked... The other day paid in cash a she took not evenl table because I thought there was a mistake. In front of everybody, I counted the cash so they could see they The table them and hing to the
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    Customer backtracks after giving server a $200 tip

    Font - Posted by Bartender u/KASchay 15 hours ago Customer asked for her tip back an hour later Short
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    Font - The other day I had a table severely overtip me in cash. The table paid in cash and told me to keep the change. I thanked them and took not even one step away before immediately returning to the table because I thought there was a mistake. In front of everybody, I counted the cash so they could see they were letting me keep over $200 in change. They said yeah it's for me. I doubled down and asked "you're absolutely sure?" to which they smiled and said yeah. I told them thanks they rock an
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    Font - They were sitting there for a while finishing their drinks when I was called back an hour later. The lady that paid asked for her change back. She gave me $5 in return "for my trouble" I'm feeling a mix of confusion with a dash of salt because while I didn't like that she backtracked, I truly don't think I deserved an insanely high $200 tip in the first place.
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    The commenters had a few questions...

    Font - donald trumpsmistress 11 hr. ago When she called you back, were the people she was with gone? Because it sounds like she was just trying to flaunt in front of friends as if she's a high roller and extravagant tipper, but to then ask for it back is a real piece of sh move. I would have just told her sorry ma'am we pool tips here and it's already been paid out 628 Reply Share
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    Which were fully answered by OP

    Font - KASchay OP 11 hr. ago Bartender All four people were still there and looked pi ed off. Complete different demeanor from before. 414 Reply Share level27jennybro - 9 hr. ago I wonder what she would have done if your shift had ended and you walked with that money? 187 Reply Share
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    Font - PizzaPunkrus 2 hr. ago I've only ever called someone one out not tipping when they accidentally gave my 3 fresh hundreds stuck together on 35 dollar tab. I was like hey dude this to much money. Then he didn't tip straight to his face in front of his friends I said bruh I could have robbed you for 200$ and you can't even leave a dollar a drink. I guess his friends shamed him or he felt guilty and came back and threw me a 10. 14 Reply Share
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    Some commenters offered some pretty good unsolicited advice.

    Font - OU7C4ST 10 hr. ago Smile & go "Oh, I'm sorry, I already put it in our community tip jar. I'll need a minute to tell the manager and other waitresses running around why I'm taking money out of it incase they see me, so there isn't any confusion as if I'm trying to rip them off." head tilt "I'm sure you can understand" 356 Reply Share
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    Font - 12345abcd1234 10 hr. ago Beautiful. This response is magnificent. 72 Reply Share ↑↓ 7 measaqueen 4 hr. ago Or that you already put it into the system and it's been taken out of your taxes and tip outs so please speak to my manager. : Reply Share
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    Font - MelMomma 11 hr. ago I'm so sorry that happened to you. I've never heard of that happening! Don't let it mess with your head. People do weird stuff. This is definitely weird. Reply Share 45 dexman76 11 hr. ago clock out, walk out. take the write up, keep the cash. 154 Reply Share
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    Font - _HeadySpaghetti_ . 9 hr. ago Like, weird question, but were the drinks they were finishing all? I have served some wino ladies groups before and it's funny to watch how their demeanors change over the course of a lunch and couple glasses of wine. I have absolutely found people giggly and confused as hell while paying their bill, obviously not sure how to math, just handing me money and saying to keep the change. I have clarified with people before because the tip was way bigger than I exp
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    Font - wolfie379 13 hr. ago More info needed. Roughly what was the total bill? This would give an indication of how badly undertipped you were (even a carry out pizza big enough to feed 4 people would probably be over $25). Depending on the tab, the $5 tip might not even cover your tip-out.
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    Font - What happened in the hour after they cashed out? If a server is weeded, there's the temptation to ignore tables that have cashed out and therefore have finished. Did someone want to get a coffee/soda refill, or open a new tab to get dessert or a non-refill drink? Their perceived level of service just dropped, which would warrant a reduction in the tip (but not by that much).
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    Font - Were her friends still at the table with her, or had they left? She could have been an aple/moocher trying to look like Ms. Big then taking it back. Her friends might have tipped generously, with this being her way of getting her friends to pay for her meal. How thourough is the restaurant in checking bills, especially large bills, and did you return the tip in the form of the same bills you received it in? If all you have is the worthless light yellow marker, and the bills you got from t
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    Font - Gamaray311 6 hr. ago I was wondering these details as well- I just wish there was an establishment rule against this kind of cr. Asking for your tip back!? I wonder what my manager ma would have asked me to do? Seriously nowadays they have our backs more than ten or twenty years ago. I'm sorry you had to deal with this lady OP 43 ↓ Reply Share
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    Font - TraditionalStable431 8 hr. ago I would have said "I am so sorry. Did I do something to change your perception of the service you've received here with us today?" ..it's just such a bizarre situation I'd want to know 6 Reply Share
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    Font - Rokemsokem88 - 11 hr. ago Lesson learned next time say nothing Reply Share 5 twhiting9275. 8 hr. ago Nope. They confirmed, twice. 45 Reply Share
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    Font - G JadeSpade23. 6 hr. ago When she hands you the $5, just say, "Oh no, you keep it. Seems like you could use it more." 3 Reply Share ...
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    Font - emeraldus 5 hr. ago Sounds kinda like she was trying to show off to the other people at the table then scurried back to retrieve the money. 23 Reply Share patsoyeah 11 hr. ago Yeah that sucks, but probably not worth worrying about and who knows what's going on on their end, could be any sort of sudden event or some such 3 Reply Share

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