AITA : 'you ruined my birthday... AGAIN' : Instead of Planning a Birthday Party for Wife, Husband Taps Into Weaponized Incompetence & Pretends to Be Sick, Turmoil Ensues

If you're not familiar with the term already, weaponized incompetence is the art of pretending to be dumb and clueless, but doing it so well that it becomes a weapon in and of itself. It's the perfect way to deflect blame, avoid responsibility, and manipulate situations to your personal advantage. 

And guess what? We have just the story to perfectly illustrate weaponized incompetence in all its glory. We recently stumbled upon a woman who recently celebrated her birthday. What she thought would be one of the best and most special days of her life quickly became a day filled with regret, resentment, and broken hearts. We won't spoil too many of the details for you but what we will say is weaponized incompetence is hella dangerous and sneaky. You won't always see it coming, but it's definitely possible to see the signs. So have a read for yourself and take some notes on possible red flags to look out for. 

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