'I will be colorblind to every red flag the second that happens': Men spill the beans on the most attractive thing a woman can do on a first date

Dating is difficult, so folks are always looking for the thing they can do on their first date that will seal the deal and help them find "the one". For women especially, it's tough to know exactly what a man is looking for on a date and you can trap yourself in a corner or push him away instantly if you say or do the wrong thing. So, as women, is it better to be perfect and polished or simply genuine?

Obviously it's probably a little different if a man is looking for a simple hookup, but men that are looking to wife up, scope for the most genuine first date possible. As it turns out, according to men, if you're on a first date with someone, the best thing you can do is just be 100% real. Nobody wants some girl who's going to change the way she normally acts just because she's trying to paint the perfect picture. Although it's tempting to try and show your best side, dudes really just want to see the real you on a first date. Oh and if you're super hot in the process, they like that too– they're still men after all.

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