You know when pet owners start to look like their dogs? For example, when you see an old white haired lady walking down the street with a tiny white poodle and you wonder if they just spent so much time together that one morphed into the other? Do you think that phenomenon can happen to spouses if they spend too much time together? Asking for a friend…
Nobody is saying that your husband is a dog, by any means. However, after 5-10 years of being each other's "other half", at what point do you simply become one? Married couples everywhere spend a ton of time together– at home, doing groceries, asleep on the couch, going on dates, you name it– and half the time the only person you want to hang out with is your hubby/wifey. It's not your fault that you both have the same hobbies and interests, that's what got you into this whole marriage mess in the first place. So go hang with your bestie, it's fine that they're also your legal romantic partner.