Girlfriend Storms off After Thoughtful Boyfriend Proposes to Her With a Ring on a String

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    Font - Posted by u/Bulky_Description556 15 hours ago s AITA for getting my fiance a ring on a chain?
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    Font - I(29m) wanted to propose to my gf(28f). She's a nurse, so she can't wear rings at work. I wanted to give her something that she could keep with her all the time. I work as a graphic designer, so I designed a ring and a chain that I thought she would really I like.
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    Font - The ring is in a style she's worn before and likes, with a diamond, as well as opals, which are her favourite. The chain is fairly small and sturdy, and made of a stainless steel core with alternating gold and silver links over top, so it's stronger. The clasp
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    Font - for the chain is invisible, and the ring can be clipped on and off of the ring without having to take the chain off. I made it so that she could turn it and hide the clip so she could wear the chain separately from the ring as well.
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    Font - I thought it was really cool, and I proposed on Sunday at the park after mothers day. There was no one else around to see it. She was initially excited when she saw it and immediately said yes.
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    Font - However, when she pulled it out and saw the chain attached, she accused me of trying to prank her, and wouldn't hear a word in edgewise. She was yelling at me and crying, and I felt horrible. I tried to explain, and she shut me down and went back to her mother's. Now she won't talk to me and I don't know what to do. AITA?
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    Font - DoIwantToKnow6417 15 hr. ago Colo-rectal Surgeon [44] You were very thoughtful. She didn't even want to listen to you. And you're not even married yet...... ΝΤΑ 16.3k Reply Share
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    Font - Peaceful_Walrus 13 hr. ago It sounds like a misunderstanding. Give her time calm down and understand before throwing out the relationship......... Proposals are emotional. 4 3.6k Reply Share
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    Font - Lady Doe 13 hr. ago Yeah but do you want to spend your life with someone who when they get emotional they ignore you and storm away? That's a red flag. ✩ 4.6k Reply
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    Font - Gotmewrongang 13 hr. ago Agree. That reaction plus she's a Nurse... ►► ΝΤΑ 4 2.3k Reply Share
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    Font - Calvin--Hobbes 12 hr. ago It's not a sitcom where there's a wacky misunderstanding and no one can get a word in edgewise. It's insane behavior to explode like that and have no communication for days. It's unreasonable for anyone to expect to be treated like that and be okay with it.
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    Font - fargoLEVY13. 13 hr. ago Asshole Aficionado [10] Dude take it back, her reaction is unhinged. NTA. ↑ 258 ↓ Reply Share
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    Font - BlueJohn2113. 13 hr. ago Agreed. When I read the title I was picturing some Lord of the Rings action with the One Ring on the chain or something and she got upset because she doesnt like LotR, but this is a lot more thoughtful and caring and considerate of her profession and not to mention it functions just like a regular ring since it can be detached from the chain.
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    Font - You do not want to spend the rest of your life with someone who reacts like that to something very thoughtful that you did and won't even hear what you have to say about it.
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    Font - wdh662 Right? - 11 hr. ago My wife is an ER nurse and so rings are a no no. I would score MAJOR points for something like this. Not to mention designing it himself. I almost need to go y t a just for setting the bar so high. NTA all day

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