'I don't feel safe now' : Girlfriend’s Trust Is Shaken as Boyfriend Uses Her Toothbrush to Clean His Dirty Phone

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    Font - Posted by u/monsterofvictoria 8 hours ago I (27F) caught my fiance (27M) cleaning his phone port with my toothbrush
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    Font - So, I walk in from doing some garden work, I need to use the restroom really badly. I walk in, and immediately see him using my (pink) toothbrush to clean his phone port, which has not been working the last few days. I immediately freeze, feel sick to my stomach, and feel like I'm going to pass out.
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    Font - My hands start shaking, and honestly the feeling of betrayal and disgust really overtook me. I was immediately overwhelmed, and told him he needed to buy me a new toothbrush. He look on his face. I just can't unsee how guilty he knew he was. I then tell him that I am honestly so
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    Font - disgusted and can't believe he would do that to me, specifically choosing my toothbrush out of the two options (his is green). He says that it is simply an accident, and that he was overwhelmed with his ADD and didn't even consider what he was doing. He went as far as to say that it was
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    Font - hypocritical of me NOT to accept his ADD answer, because my ADHD often causes me to do inconsiderate things, that often upset him. I do not like feeling like I'm being gaslit, nor do I feel I should have to accept that it was simply an accident. If I hadn't
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    Font - caught him, he likely would have returned my toothbrush to its holder. What other things do I have to look out for? But, I do often inflate intense feelings and emotions due to my ADHD, and have to be very cautious of that as well.
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    Font - juicycouturexoxo · 7 hr. ago I have adhd and I know not to do that because I'm not feral. 2.3k Reply Share
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    Font - . juicycouturexoxo · 4 hr. ago I have a specific brush for my dog's teeth and I wouldn't even use her brush to clean my phone port. And I caught her eating shit the other day. It's called respect lol
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    Human body - PowerChords84 - 4 hr. ago . I have ADHD and AM feral and I still know not to do that.
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    Font - EvilFinch 3 hr. ago I have cheep new toothbrush and i also keep the old tooothbrush for cleaning. That he came right away with ADD as an excuse, it feels as if he is used to use it as a shield to take responsibility for his actions. And even if the first impulse to take it was a whoopsie, all the time he had it in the hand and cleaned the port, he saw the pink and didn't react. He just didn't wanted to use his toothbrush. And i wonder what else he did with it or other of her stuff.
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    Font - . popdemonpop 6 hr. ago Yeah from my understanding a lot of people with adhd may blurt out stupid stuff or do something clumsy but avoidable because they were distracted and not thinking like trying to carry too much at once and then trying to squeeze through a tight spot and tripping over the cat
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    Font - But I don't see how this is like either of those Like he thought - I need to clean my port What should I use? A toothbrush would work Use OP's toothbrush, not mine, she won't know so it doesn't matter
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    Font - DefinitelyNotADave 8 hr. ago He turned things around and made it about you doing things, that's a huge issue 1.3k Reply Share
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    Font - boastfulbadger 7 hr. ago This is some cringe sitcom nonsense that no one in the real world would ever put up with. Who knows what he's been doing that you haven't busted him on.
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    Font - SorrySeptember - 3 hr. ago It reminds me of that horrid post where a woman found out her boyfriend was hiding dead slugs in her food for months as a "prank" and kept doing it even after OP was hospitalized. I think she only found out because she found the jar under the sink. People like this are not safe to be around.

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