When in relationships, we're not always able to identify whether the person in front of us is a bad fit just because we're usually used to blaring red flags such as cheating. We've become experts at spotting those incredibly toxic red flags but sometimes we miss the smaller, more subtle indicators that someone is just not the right fit for us.
Let's take effort, for example. Has anyone else noticed that men tend to put SO much more effort in the beginning stages of the relationship? They'll pretty much love bomb you and convince you that they're obsessed with you and then poof… like magic, gone and nowhere to be spotted ever again.
And today's Reddit story is a prime example of just that: a man who doesn't cheat but doesn't pay any attention to his wife nor contribution to his family and kids. Let this story serve as a reminder that a red flag is still a red flag. No matter how big or small.