'Women watching out for other women': Female Redditors discuss what would cause them to distrust another woman off of appearances alone

Listen, we would never encourage to judge a book by its cover. You never know what's going on in the head or life of someone, so it's completely unfair to judge just by looks. That being saaaaaaid… We all do it whether we mean to or not. It could be personal—for example, you have religious trauma, so when you see someone in a shirt that says something like, "if you don't like Jesus, then come talk to me about how you're going to heII," then yeah, you're probably going to immediately distrust that person. Or it could just be something that gives you the ick, like if someone wears every expensive thing they own, it might appear to you that they are trying to flash their wealth and that might just not sit right with you. 

Again, women should be supporting other women and getting to know someone before they start to call them out for anything, but sometimes they just can't help it. Women on Reddit have come together to share what their judgey moments have been when they've immediately distrust someone on looks alone. See for yourself below!

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