‘I’m not the problem’: Twitter Thread Reveals Breakup Rationales That Explain Why It Ended

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morganleason
Jun 18, 2023 1:00 PM EDT

Everyone has that friend that is always in a relationship. What is it about them? It could be that they get along with many different types of people or are really good at flirting. Whatever it is, they also seem to be the masters of ending relationships.

There is no good side to a breakup. The person who gets broken up with has to experience all of the pain and confusion of feeling like they must be "the problem" that ended the relationship. At the same time, the one who does the breaking up will often struggle with when the right moment to end the relationship is, and how to go about ending it.

Taken to Twitter, people discussed what the drivers are for ending relationships. Not surprisingly, a lot of the cause was poor actions on the part of their partner, specifically, cheating. At CheezCake, we encourage you to pay close attention to how your partner affects you. If your partner is not enhancing your life, it may be time to end the relationship.

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    Font - National Problem 13 @sipuku_sa_sotra How did you know it was time to end that relationship? 7:57 AM Jun 12, 2023 154.6K Views 149 Retweets 38 Quotes 478 Likes 36 Bookmarks
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    Font - iamfreezy @iamfreezy186. Jun 12 I should have walked away the moment I compromised myself to fit the narrative they wanted of me, I settled because I wanted to be loved. I'm a nurturer so my instinct to try and heal and make others feel good was my first priority which was my mistake. 27 1 1 23 1,687 ↑
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