50+ Memes for the Self-Sufficient Gals That Want You but Don’t [Need] You

"They can say you're high maintenance, but it's okay because I like maintaining you." These words- by the iconic Chandler Bing, have become the holy grail that we happily embrace. Let's be honest, all the lovely ladies out there carry a touch of high maintenance, but let's also note that much of it is not just desired but dare we say, necessary. There's something undeniably appealing about a woman who knows her value, who's self-assured, and who reciprocates the attention she rightfully deserves.

However, entering this type of relationship requires communication to establish those boundaries that deal with unwanted misunderstandings. We've all heard the phrase, "If he wanted to, he would," and it applies to these situations too. These women are aware of their worth and can sense who's up to the task.. and if you're not, well, there's the door. Noticing the small details can make a huge difference. Remembering those minor aspects can have an impact, demonstrating that you're not just willing but eager to be a part. Ultimately, it's about showing: not because you have to, but because you genuinely want to.

 For the ladies out there waiting for these men, and for those men up to the "challenge" here are 50+ memes for motivation!

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