'They were looking forward to getting money': Newlyweds, in debt €2,000 to the family business, are absolved of their debt in lieu of a wedding gift; get offended it's not cash

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    Font - Posted by u/Itchy_Letterhead_360 1 day ago Don't pay your debt? Guess that will be your wedding gift!
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    Font - A couple of weeks ago. my uncle married his long term girlfriend. As custom in my country, every wedding guest has to give the newly wed a gift for their marriage.
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    Font - For context, my parents have a mechanic workshop, my dad repairing the cars and my mom doing the documents part. Almost everyone in my town goes to get their car fixed
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    Plant - there, including my other family members. As in every business, there are people who, after having the car fixed, promise to pay eventually
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    Font - because they are short on money, and never do. Obviously, family are the most common ones that fall into this cathegory.
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    Font - My uncles (mom's brothers) have a running theme of not paying on time (or not at all) and my parents let them pass because, well, they are family. They prefer to let them go,
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    Font - over causing any more drama in the family. One of my uncles, let's call him T, took his car to my parents workshop to get it fixed. Since he needed a car
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    Organism - while his was getting fixed, they lent him the business car as is custom with the clients. A couple of months go by, and my parents are tired of asking
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    Font - him to pay them, and take his car away because is affecting the workshop at this point and my parent's tax money (since they have to use their own money to pay for his repair
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    Font - because he doesn't pay them). Next saturday was my uncle's wedding and my mom already knew what she was going to do. Instead of giving them
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    Font - money or any of the gifts they asked for, she instead gave them the absent of his payment. Once the wedding passed, she
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    Font - gave them the envelopment containing all of his bills, summing to the ABSURD amount of 2.000€. Basically, their wedding gift was getting their debt paid and not owing my parents money.
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    Font - They were pretty pied about it, because they were looking forward to getting money, which in my opinion is quite entitled tbh. And if you asked
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    Font - me, that is quite a great wedding gift. I thought my mom acted in a petty manner, while also being nice. Too nice maybe.
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    Font - 718_chocolate. 23 hr. ago She gave him the gift of 2,000€ in debt relief. What's wrong with that?
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    Font - OblongAndKneeless +3.20 hr. ago She could have been pettier and given them a check made out to their company in the amount of 2.000€
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    Font - Mysterious_Spell_302 +1. 15 hr. ago She could have been even pettier and given them a check made out to the bride and groom for 1 pound along with the bills.
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    Rectangle - plausiblydead. 8 hr. ago I honestly thought that was the case and that would have been petty, instead they basicly gave them 2000 euros.
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    Font - Canadian JediCouncil +1 - 15 hr. ago In his mind, he wasn't going to pay it anyway, so it was already "taken care of". He's pled because he shamelessly expected the envelope to contain a big cash gift.
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    Font - 18 hr. ago ThisIs_americunt my petty as would've handed them the 2K then take it back and handed them a bill
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    Font - Arkof Vengeance 10 hr. ago Well they would've never payed that bill anyways so their present was a net zero. They got (in their eyes) nothing because they are entitled
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    Font - GothPenguin 23 hr. ago Your mom is a genius. That's a fantastic wedding gift. It's also beautiful revenge.
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    Font - kiwimuz +1 22 hr. ago Good on your mother and I'd never do another repair for your uncle. Being family is no excuse for not paying bills.
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    Font - baka-tari +3 · 22 hr. ago I'm guessing that envelope wasn't listed on their gift registry, but it was probably still worth more than what many others gave them. Your mom did well.
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    Rectangle - "I'm guessing that wasn't listed on their gift registry"

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