People Share Signs That Somebody is a Loser

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Emmy Pratt • Senior Editor
Sep 10, 2023 8:00 PM EDT

I'm going to share something that probably won't surprise you guys: there have been times in my life when I was a loser. My most loser behavior was perhaps the year when I was obsessed with the actor Paul Dano. I had never really stanned an actor to the point where I was watching all of their movies, even the awful ones. But something about Paul Dano in the autumn of 2020 and spring of 2021 made me a bona fide superfan. I don't blame myself for engaging in that loser behavior: as we all know, a lot was happening in the world then. But it feels so good that I have enough of a life that I don't spend oodles of my free time thinking about an actor who will never know I exist. 

Redditors came together to discuss loser behavior (an oxymoron, I know), and I can't help but agree with some of their examples. 

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    Font - r/AskReddit u/PM_ME_UR_DOGS_FEET. 23h What's a dead giveaway that someone doesn't have a life?
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    Font - ClickWorthy69420 - 23h The lady in my office who monitors how long everyone has been away from their computer. Reply 28.3k ...
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    Font - Professional-Algae54 • 21h 1 Award My manager gets mad at anyone who takes time off and complains about them the whole time they're gone. Sorry you don't have a life, other people do! Maybe you should try it sometime. Reply 15.6k
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    Font - Colourful_Hobbit . 22h Worrying about what others do with their life. I think if someone is obsessed with what someone else does, they don't have anything in their own life going on. Reply 6.7k
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    Rectangle - Old ManLogia. 22h They up in yours. Reply 2.7k
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    Font - gnocchimoncher • 22h They use followers and likes as a way to feel superior I know someone has no life when they get in an argument and say "says the person with 0 followers" as in insult... Like YOU spend all day on ur phone making 10 second videos. Why are you proud of that Reply 4.9k
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    Font - thetrinislacker • 23h 7 Awards Being me on here looking for things that I'm guilty of doing.
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    Font - margson 22h ● Being obsessed with celebrities ... Reply 3.9k
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    Rectangle - Demiurge88 20h 12 Awards Heh, one thing I can tell from the variety of answers is that, no matter how someone lives their life, they can and will be judged for it. Are you career-oriented, or do you work hard to earn a living? You have no life. Of course the same applies if you don't work enough.
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    Font - Some would argue that starting a family is the ultimate goal in life, but people also don't have enough of a life if they're too passionate about their kids. Do you have a strong interest in something, like a hobby, that you devote much of your time to because it's your passion? Say, sports, reading, video games, movies, gardening, whatever. No life.
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    Font - Did you peak in high school/college, and life has been rough for you - maybe just down to bad luck - since? No life. And of course, if you happen to be some poor soul who self-isolates due to struggling with mental illness, you have to be judged as a no-lifer instead of being met with any kind of empathy for your situation.
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    Rectangle - Maybe we just shouldn't worry too much about how others judge us and just live our lives as we want to. Reply 5.9k
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    Font - walruspie_cliff22. 23h Too much gossiping ... Reply 600
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    Font - Kpft. 23h posting constantly on social media Reply 793
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    Font - TemporaryAd4316 - 22h When people try to start arguments for no reason. Reply 44 ...
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    Rectangle - throwaway0227033687 23h They have Reddit Reply 119
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    Font - Puzzleheaded_Cod3927 21h Probably when they're always envious of everyone that may be doing better than they are, and I'm talking hateful jealous not that "I wish I had a car like that judgemental jealousy the "They bought that car? What a waste, I would have bought that car too if I wanted to but I don't like to waste my money, they're not even that great they don't deserve that kind of money" type of jealousy. Cause if you're that hung up on other people's lives than you're not busy eno
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