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“AITA for telling my son that village you wanted doesn’t exist since you burnt it to the ground” Posted by u/ProfessionalHornet72
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"Husband has a low contact also but it is due to different reason. He didn't have a great relationship with his siblings but they tolerated each-other. Nicks mom said I am out and basically gave up her rights. I have never talked to her and I don't think the youngest has even talked to her. I have no idea what she is up to" —OP
"INFO: what is the 'different reason' his father is LC? Did something happen during childhood… maybe before you came into their lives?" —u/sarah_schmara
"He trashed his hunting cabin and refused to pay for the damages." —OP -
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"He went to the wedding, he put his foot down on Christmas and told him he can come but I will be there or not come. He didn't come to the event" —OP
"It sounds like Nick is acting like a petulant child. I would expect that sort of thing when he was a kid, but as a grown a** adult he really should know better (obvious caveat is that we have no idea how you treate(ed) him and can only go by the fact that your have a good relationship with the other kids). But it sounds like his father needs to step in here and have a chat with him." —u/medium_buffalo_wings -
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"I'm not his mother, never will be is his words. He is the middle child, he never would give me examples but I am too much according to him. My relationship with the other four is great. I personally think he realized he isolated himself from the family" —OP
"NTA in that case. A parent's love is unconditional, but that doesn't mean there aren't consequences to his actions. And besides, he made clear you're not his parent!" —u/zenocrate -
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"Agreed. Nick has no problem having no contact or telling OP to kick rocks UNTIL Nick needs something. Basically OP is a solution to his own problem not a human being that he crapped on for years, destroyed his own relationships and now is reaping what he sowed" —u/NiceRat123
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