We go through all sorts of phases and experiences throughout our dating journeys. Every relationship, connection, and yes, even situationship contributes to our personal growth and understanding of what we truly want in a relationship. While many of these phases lead to heartbreak, confusion, and disappointment, they ultimately lead us to a better place, one where we have higher standards and expectations in our quest for connection.
In our youth, we don't really know what we want. We experiment with different personalities and lifestyles, learning from both successful and failed relationships. These phases help us realize our own values and preferences, think of it as refining the blueprint for your ideal partner.
As we mature and gain experience, we become more picky and alert. We begin to recognize red flags and deal-breakers from a mile away. We may have overlooked these things in the past, but not anymore. And let this be the takeaway, treat every relationship as a lesson learned and learn from your mistakes.
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