‘My Kids Aren’t Props’: Couple Requests Nieces Participate in Wedding Photos and Then Promptly Disperse to Accommodate the Couple’s ‘No Kid’ Wedding Rule

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    Posted by u/2022Yolo 2 days ago AITAH for not going to my brother-in-laws wedding when he asked my children to be flower girls?
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    We live in California and my husband's brother is getting married in Texas. Him and his fiancé asked our two young girls to be flower girls in their wedding. They made it very clear there are no children allowed at the reception. They only want the flower girls for pictures and the ceremony, then they need to leave. We asked if our kids could be an exception because
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    our kids could be an exception because we have no one in Texas who can watch them, have never used a babysitter and wouldn't feel comfortable with some random person watching them at the hotel and on top of all this, we will have a 3 month old baby. They said no. I know my BIL is torn but his fiancé absolutely doesn't want kids. The only way they can be in the wedding is if I
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    way they can be in the wedding is if I leave after the ceremony to watch all the kids and miss out on the reception myself. My husband is in the wedding so this means doing everything by myself with two kids and a newborn in a state/city I know nothing about. We told them we want to honor their No Kids policy but also need to do what's best for our family, which is for me to
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    best for our family, which is for me to stay home with my kids and not go to the wedding at all. They seemed pretty upset about the whole thing. AITAH or are they being unreasonable?
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    EDIT: BIL and SIL offered no workaround or compromise. At first when we told them myself and the girls would stay back, they were totally fine with that BUT they thought that meant we'd all still go to the ceremony and then I'd take the girls and go back to the hotel after. They got upset when they found out we wouldn't be going at all.
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    Recently found out it was because SIL wanted flower girls and wasn't getting them anymore.
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    chaingun_samurai · 2 days ago They only want the flower girls for pictures and the ceremony, then they need to leave. "My kids aren't props." ΝΤΑ
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    Danivelle 2 days ago Husband needs to say this to his brother.
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    84508 2 days ago NTA. Asking your kids to take pictures at the wedding but not being allowed to attend the reception is incredibly impolite.
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    Kat-a-strophy . 2 days ago And drag them from California to Texas for being there for 10 minutes+ not paying for childcare, so OP can also fly from
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    also fly from California to Texas to take care of hef kids in hotel during the wedding reception. It's incredibly entitled.
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    jonpeeji. 2 days ago. edited 2 days ago And what is that, like $2000+ for the privilege? Inconsiderate!
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    Little-Bid-8089 · 2 days ago I mean, if in town where parents have great support system that might be ok- but this is an insane ask. NTA
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    Apart Foundation1702 2 days ago Future SIL sounds like a delight Her demands are completely unreasonable and disrespectful to OP and her family. OP
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    and her family. OP my condolences on having this unreasonable selfish woman entering your family. NTA
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    Adorable-Reaction887 2 days ago "My kids aren't props, and it's a big expensive ask for a 30- minute appearance and a couple of photos."
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    Imagine having this much audacity to think that your brother and his wife are going to cart 3 kids from Cali to Texas for a couple of photos and 'awww' factor at their own expense.
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    bulgarianlily 2 days ago They could hire a couple of child models for less.
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    SFWorkins 2 days ago · They have an opportunity here to do something hilarious.
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    Wanda McMimzy 2 days ago NTA. They want no kids and flower girls. That's a conflict and they're stupid.

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