‘Her friends were laughing and pointing at me’: After Snooping Through Girlfriend’s Phone, Man Finds Out the Hard Way About His Inadequate and Emasculate Size (No Pun Intended)

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Briana Viser • Writer and Editor
Feb 4, 2024 3:00 PM EST

Discovering such personal information in an unexpected manner can be a deeply unsettling experience for any individual. The man's journey from curiosity to shock may unfold in stages, beginning with the innocent act of browsing through his girlfriend's phone. As he stumbles upon intimate conversations or perhaps even explicit remarks about his anatomy, he may feel a wave of insecurity and vulnerability wash over him. This newfound knowledge could shatter his confidence, leading to feelings of inadequacy and self-doubt. Our bodies are a very intimate and vulnerable subject, it would be jarring for anyone to see people making fun of them

As sad and humiliating as it is, there is an aspect of comedy here. As girls, we might say a little more detail about our love lives to each other than seem fair. Of course it's not nice to exploit a person behind their back, but does that mean we're going to stop? Probably not. We're here for the giggles.

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    Posted by u/BatFuzzy2529 10 hours ago AITAH for breaking up with a girl for telling her friends I have small manhood?
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    I have been dating a girl for around 3 months. We finally hooked up and I thought everything was fine. Now for context, I consider myself to have an average sized perhaps on the smaller side of average. (Not entirely sure if it's TMI to post specifics) but I will admit it does look pretty small when soft. Obviously posting from a
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    throwaway as it's embarrassing. She's always been super opinionated on terms like "small size, uses energy" etc, but I never thought anything of it or let it affect me, as I said. I consider myself average. And if you ever pull anyone up on mocking size it's "haha you must have so I just never "I a small bothered.
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    So anyway after the hook up a few days later we are hanging out with her friends after work for drinks. I can feel a weird atmosphere like her and the other girls have been talking about me, like sharing a strange smirk with each other when they first saw me. and her friends are cracking indirect small jokes, making me super paranoid. I felt embarrassed but didn't show it.
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    On the way back to my apartment I asked if she shared intimate details about me with her friends and she said no, she would never. I'm not proud, but as I felt she wasn't telling the truth later that night I went on her phone while she was in the shower and went straight to her girls group chat on WhatsApp and man, I tell you it was
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    the most emasculating thing I have ever been through. Like an hour after hooking up she was roasting me about my size, telling her girls how small I felt in her hands, how her at her house was atleast 4 times bigger and thicker., that she was disappointed. She even said "Aaron really ruined things for me" which is probably a dude from her past who is super hung what makes
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    average look small to her. This girl was even saying I had small So now I can't let it go, and It's messed with my self esteem massively. I asked her to leave when she got out the shower and I've been ghosting her for about 4 days now without an explanation because I am so embarrassed to even talk to her.
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    No doubt I will get some mean comments mocking me by dudes but please have some sensitivity to this topic. Do I confront her about this? Do I forgive her? Have any guys been through this? Have any girls DONE this?
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    I feel like she really didn't value my privacy and I wouldn't dare share intimate details about her. There are things I could say about her body but I'd never do that to another person.
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    GodIsAGas 10 hr. ago NTA. Of course not. What she has done is beyond Personally, I'd walk away, block her, and have nothing to do with either her or her circle of friends. She isn't worth the effort.
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    And I'm sorry this happened to you, man. But now you know you can move on and find someone worth your time and your affection.
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    BatFuzzy2529 OP 10 hr. ago Thank you for being kind
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    mush8292 · 8 hr. ago Small dicker here. Keep your head up (and i'm not being punny). There's plenty out there and one you'll come across who will respect you for you. (Trust me, I found her).
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    Frequent Opportunist 7 hr. ago Also every woman has a different shape. I consider myself average and I've been with a few chicks where I could bottom out and others where I couldn't reach the deep end if I tried.
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    ravenlovesart . 7 hr. ago This is true. I'm a "shallow " woman, and it is painful sometimes when they're above average even modestly.
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    coquihalla. 6 hr. ago Exactly, I'm a bigger woman but quite shallow and I couldn't be more happy that I fell for a man that 'fits' better.
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    Dazzling_Classic3622 6 hr. ago True story!! I have no idea how some women can champion through a round of slap skin with a stick the size of her forearm. Also, one of the best men in
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    bed I've been with was the smallest.. it was like he was magic. And too big can make a woman go numb fast. So most of the time she's just like "ooh ahh" for your benefit.
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    LoveTheSunshine850 4 hr. ago Well the OP did speak of the size of her SO that explains a lot. She must have had lots of practice with that thing and now she is unrealistic lol!!
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    Nard_the_Fox 5 hr. ago edited 3 hr. ago What this guy said. Been there for deep and shallow gals alike. Bodies are different.
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    Couldn't be with one gal because I hurt her, and I'm nothing special.
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    There's someone for everyone, and the girl you described should be an immediate pass. Your instant recoil at the idea of being more open with her is the opposite of what a healthy relationship
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    works towards. That's your best indicator in this life, so follow that gut instinct.
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    watermelonsrdelish · 9 hr. ago Yes, your gf is immature and cruel for no reason. Deffo not worth your time. Not even worth thinking about, some peeps just need to hurt others in order to feel better about themselves. Not your problem. To quote a friend, next!
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    Trailsya 10 hr. ago • edited 10 hr. ago ΝΤΑ even. She shouldn't be saying that. Girl here; never done that and never will unless he beats kittens or kicks old ladies who
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    try to cross the road or something like that. In other words, only when he does something really terrible, and even then I would probably not do that as it would not even cross my mind There is no reason to do this just because.
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