Ex Girlfriend Cheats On Her Boyfriend, Kidnaps His Cat Then Abandons It When It Gets Sick, Leaving The Cat Alone And The Boyfriend Baffled

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    Posted by u/GabagoolOvaHeree 4 days ago Ex kidnapped cat and now she needs surgery Medical Questions
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    My ex brought home a stray cat, I wasn't really much of a cat guy, but this little girl changed that very quick. She couldn't stand my ex and always wanted to be around me and that drove her nuts. Long story short, she cheated on me after I bought us a house. My ex was basically going to be couch crashing and while moving her stuff out, kidnapped the cat. I thought it was kind of crazy and tried to contact her, but she blocked me. I was pretty upset because I grew to love that little cat.
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    Four months go by and some girl messages me saying my ex stole a bunch of from her and ran off, leaving the cat behind. This girl says that she can't take care of the cat and I need to come get her or else she's going to a shelter.
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    Never hopped in my car so fast. Brought home the cat and She's loving it back at home. I figured I better take her into her vet for a check up. She had a minor case of gingivitis from before she was kidnapped, and I was combatting that by using a finger brush as well as giving her dental food. I guess my ex was too busy stealing and participating in general ratchet debauchery she forgot that she kidnapped a living thing that requires care.
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    Vet says she will have to get a major cleaning and an x-ray, and depending on the results may need some teeth extracted. I am absolutely livid. The money isn't a problem, I'm just really upset my ex pulled this crap and I suppose this is just a bit of vent.
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    GabagoolOvaHeree OP. 4 days ago Siri play "Reunited" by Peaches & Cream Reply Share 5.0k
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    countryKat35612 . 4 days ago Even if your kitty hadn't been kidnapped the dental issues were there & likely wouldn't have been noticed until an extensive vet exam. Cats are very, very good at hiding their aches & pains. Your ex was terrible for taking your baby. I'm happy y'all are back together.
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    suprisedkittens 4 days ago While it's obvious the ex was a terrible person I am uncomfortable with the notion that someone can own a pet, but bc their bf likes the pet it is now "kidnapping" If she was the rightful owner she did nothing wrong by taking her cat.
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    She obviously wasn't fit to be owning the cat at all but it needs to be clear that partners cannot steal pets that are legally yours just because they like said pet. Had she been a normal person and a good cat owner, OP would have been harassing her for taking her cat that she rescued with her. That would have been messed up.
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    That's part of the reason all my pets are microchipped in my name. I had a manipulative ex and I'll never risk a bf trying to take one of my pets bc "the pet likes him." Or whatever.
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    GabagoolOvaHeree OP. 4 days ago The cat is micro chipped under my name. When we first got her, she had an overgrowth on her elbow bone and had to have surgery done, and I fronted the money out of my own savings.
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    My ex drunkenly carried her outside and dropped her, was so annihilated she passed out, and I spent the next six hours looking for her only to find her under a bench down the street. I scooped her up and walked her all the way home.
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    GabagoolOvaHeree OP. 4 days ago I suppose it's more so that the problem was minor and was being managed, even her vet said her teeth were looking better....until she was kidnapped and now the teeth are so bad she might have to have some extracted.
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    edingerc 4 days ago . "wasn't really much of a cat guy" Cats zero in on this really quick and will work you until you give in and give them love back. They like the calm and reserved more than excited and enthusiastic, especially when they're getting to know you. Glad she's back home where she belonged.
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    Miqotegirl. 4 days ago Cats really love a person who withdraws from them and is aloof. That is better than catnip to them.
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    curryp4n 4 days ago Yupp wasn't much of a cat person until my husband brought home a cat. Now we have 6 and I'm the main human for all of them lol
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    Borodo 3 days ago I was the same way, I hated cats until my girlfriend (now fiance) got a cat. First few months I couldn't stand the little gal, but damn did she grow on me. Now I would do anything for that cat and I am firmly a "cat person". I truly believe that anyone who says they hate cats simply hasn't met that one cat that will change their mind.
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    ConstantTigerrr . 4 days ago I 'wasn't a cat person' until I started dating a guy with 3 cats. Now I'm the craziest of cat ladies and a humble servant of my feline overlords
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    SalvadorP 4 days ago Him: "I'm not much of a cat person." Cat: "We'll see about that."
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    sjphilsphan 3 days ago Yeah My college roommate got a kitten and I was like ugh fine. Little kitty jumps on the couch: meeeeeer Now I have 2

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