‘25 is used up, no one will marry you’: During a Game of Truth or Dare a Girl Gets in a Fight With Bf Because She Doesn’t Want to Reveal Her Body Count

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Briana Viser • Writer and Editor
Mar 24, 2024 2:00 PM EDT

Welcome ladies of the internet. Boundaries are a crucial aspect of intimate relationships. And due to the level of intimacy, the line can be thin and blurred. What you choose to tell your partner and reveal to them is up to you, within the already applied boundaries discussed about the nature of the relationship. What you reveal to anyone else, well those are all things you don't owe anyone, and should have strong boundaries about. 

Let's say in a game of truth and dare. We all know it's just a game, and we're all adults, so some questions should respectfully be off limits, and some questions are appropriate. Whichever the case, it's just a game, and if someone doesn't want to answer said question, they are entitled to their own boundaries. 

Forcing someone to reveal information about themselves that they're not comfortable with is always a no no. I repeat: boundaries. 

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  • 01
    r/AITAH • 14 hr. ago Appropriate Roll5023 AITAH for "embarrassing" my ex in front of his friends for his misogynistic behavior after he tried to set me up?
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    I 24F was dating 28M for a year and 3 months and it was good at the beginning. I know people say there are signs about certain types of behavior or you can see like bits and pieces of who somebody is, but this man was so good about hiding who he was.
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    Last week my ex boyfriend, his two friends, their girlfriends, and I all went out to a cabin for a week and a half. I got along great with the girls, and his friends seemed nice as well. About two days in we decided to play truth or dare to break the ice. I chose truth for a round a his friend asked me my body count and I tried to change the subject because... it's my first time meeting you, you don't
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  • 04
    need to be in my business? I declined to answer and my boyfriend got very quiet and looked upset. I asked him what was wrong and he said nothing. We continue the game and his other friend dares me to tell my body count. I say no. 3 more rounds and the first friend asks me when I lost my virginity. I call it a night and say I'm not comfortable sharing my sexual history with
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    people I've known for 5 seconds My ex boyfriend goes "oh you wouldn't have to be uncomfortable if you don't have anything to hide and you haven't slept with a large amount of people". I look at him and tell him I don't have to tell these strangers anything about my personal life. We get into a small argument. I go upstairs for the night.
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    The next day rolls around and one of the guys girlfriends comes up to me and tells me that she heard him talking about a different plan to get me to talk about how many people I've been with the previously because my boyfriend doesn't want a "s..." for a wife and not telling him is it making him have second thoughts about wanting to marry me.
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    I go alone to confront him about what he said, and he said yes that he got them to try and ask me how many people I've slept with because he didn't want to offend me by asking himself. I asked him why it mattered and he told me that he didn't want anybody that was ran through to be his wife and the mother of his future children. I asked about his body count, and he tells
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    me that it SHOULDN'T MATTER because men are different. That women are the ones who give access to men to sleep with them and it's up to them to stay pure and blah blah blah. I told him if he has a problem that I've slept with people before him then we shouldn't be together. He got so angry and told me that my time is running out and no one's gonna want anybody over
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    the age of 25 because they're used up, don't listen, men prefer younger women because they're easier to mold. Like umm... ew? I told him I was done and I'm leaving and do not contact me after I leave because I do not want to be in a relationship with somebody who views women in this way. I packed my things and while I was doing it he
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    kept saying that I'm making a mistake that he didn't mean it and that he just wanted to know and he was just curious. When I was heading downstairs his to change because he saw his friends sitting there and he started by being misogynistic again and told me that I'm old and used up and nobody's gonna want me and I'd be lucky to marry him.
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    I told him that he'd be lucky if anybody was going to be desperate to marry someone who still pees on the toilet seat and with that receding hairline and that bald patch starting in the middle of his head. His friends started laughing, and he got so upset that he ran out the house. I left and now he's contacting me all over social media and making different phone numbers to text me and say I
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  • 12
    am embarrassed him, that I'm a and going back-and-forth between I wanna work this out with you, I'll get help, etc. I keep blocking his number but he keeps making more so I'm going to change my number.
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    My mom told me that I shouldn't have went below the belt with the hairline and bald patch comment but ran through, and I'm call me a old... oh well.
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    Info: We played this game as an ice breaker. We're adults... if someone doesn't want to answer I would think you'd respect that and move on. Also it was a couples weekend getaway which is why I went on the trip. I hadn't been on a vacation since before nursing school. If HE asked before this elaborate bs I would have gladly told him. I didn't have an issue with telling him Just
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    would have gladly told him. I didn't have an issue with telling him Just people I didn't know
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    Otherwise_Cod_3478 • 14h ago NTA. Your boyfriend can dish it out, but not take it.
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    DancinginHyrule • 13h ago Sooooo he can blame/shame/publicly humiliate you but how dare you say anything bad anout anything linked to his (frail) masculinity?
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    NTA, by a long shot. Block your ex, and all of his friends. Them being in on it and trying to pressure you through that game tells you everything you need to know about them.
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  • 19
    Tell your mom to stop making exuces for a man who is putting you down for being born a woman. You did nothing wrong. Stand your ground and cut off anyone who defends him.
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  • 20
    Txgurl67 12h ago I give kudos to the girl who gave her the heads up
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    Thisisthenextone • 12h ago He thinks 25 year olds are old? Girl, you're so young. I met my husband at 28. I didn't get married for years later.
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  • 22
    You could add ten years to your age and still be fine. Many people don't get married until their mid 30s. You did right. NTA
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  • 23
    Iphacles 13h ago NTA - He sounds like he listens to that red pill, alpha male nonsense. He said some pretty disgusting stuff to you, so he definitely deserved you roasting him. *high five
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