'You will respect me': 47-year-old Nurse Karen throws tantrum at younger coworker, embarrasses herself in front of a patient

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Ben Weiss • Writer and Editor
Mar 28, 2024 8:00 AM EDT

Having a Karen coworker feels like going into battle every single day of the work week. You have to walk into your place of work ready and prepared to be lectured, condescended to, and poorly treated. If the Karen in question is your equal, don't worry: she'll still talk down to you no matter what. Having a Karen for a coworker is largely about picking and choosing when to defend yourself and when to be the bigger person and let her nonsense go in one ear and out the other. Generally, you want to opt for the latter option, but every so often, your Karen coworker makes it impossible not to meet her where she's at.

That's exactly what happened to this nurse who assisted this Karen with lifting a patient, only to be lectured and chastised for helping in the wrong way. Even the patient took note of this inappropriate behavior. At a certain point, there was nothing the Redditor could do to ignore the Karen and he was forced to set the record straight. 

Keep scrolling below for the full story and for the best reactions in the comments section. For more stories like this, check out this compilation of the top Karen stories of the week.

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  • 01
    "Coworker thinks she can [...] throw a fit because she's twice my age"
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  • 02
    Coworker thinks she can bully and throw a fit because she's twice my age L I (23f) work night shift as a cna in a nursing home. Idk why the other cna I worked with last night felt the need to target me last night as it was my first time ever working with her (she's been there for only a couple weeks) but she very obviously singled me out looking for a problem.
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  • 03
    I am a hard worker and have zero interest in any kind of drama. I come to work to take care of my paitents and get paid then I leave. I may be overly bothered by this because I have anger problems that I work hard on keeping in control due to past trauma and Ik that I have to keep it together to be successful for my dream career so I just need to vent.
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  • 04
    This lady comes in a few minutes after me and I don't recognize her so I go out of my way to be helpful and ask her if she's familiar with the paitents she's assigned to and then give her a rundown of the paitents and their needs and let her know where I'll be if she needs help.
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  • 05
    After I finish checking on all my people I'm assigned to take care of for the night I sit down and start taking notes for a class I'm taking and she comes up and asks for help repositioning a paitent in bed that cant move on her own so i drop what I'm doing and go to help her.
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  • 06
    (To reposition a paitent you first use the bed remote to lift the bed up to above your waist so that you don't hurt your back bending over and then you get someone on each side of the bed to lift them up and turn them and such)
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  • 07
    We get to the ladies room and I grab the bed remote and start lifting it up but it pauses for a second because of a shortage in the wires (cheap facilitie) so it takes me a little more than 2 seconds to reposition it to start lifting the bed some more and the other cna raises her voice at me while bobbing her head around with attitude that the bed needs to be way higher than that and I explained to her that I was trying to lift the bed up but it paused for a second and that I know how to do it.
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  • 08
    She then goes off on me about what I am and am not allowed to say to her and acting so aggressive over nothing that even the paitent and her roommate are looking at her confused and concerned. I didn't want to feed into her obvious attempts to make a scene so I shrug it off and finish helping her with repositioning the lady then turn around and walk out of the room and go back to the nurses station.
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  • 09
    Moments later I get up to answer a call light then when I am walking back to the nurses station the other cna is standing there and before I make it back to my seat she starts yelling at me about how she is 47 yrs old and a 20 yr old vet and that I better watch my mouth and goes on and on and brings up my age several times and how she even has kids older than me and was saying stuff like idk what your problem is you will respect me (I litterly did not disrespect this woman once and even went out
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  • 10
    The whole time I kept repeating that im not gonna argue with her I'm just here to do my job and I don't care about her age or her work experience. I told her just stop I'm not arguing with you multiple times but eventually just walked away because I felt myself starting to shake and my heart start to race and I didn't want to go off and regret it later.
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  • 11
    Like I said I have anger issues so I get out of sight and lock myself in a bathroom shaking trying to catch my breath while my heart is racing and pounding. I was nearly in tears because this woman was almost in my face about something stupid and I couldn't blow up about it and I wanted to so bad.
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  • 12
    I get myself together and once I stop shaking I walk out to the nurses station up to the nurse who witnessed it all and told her what happened in the paitents room meanwhile I can here the other cna talking loud af to the other nurse on all the way down the other hall about how "I didn't even do anything to that little white girl all I did was ask for help with Mrs paitents name and she gave me attitude about how she knows what she knows what shes doing like i haven't been doing this for 20 year
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  • 13
    Then for the rest of the shift she was starting me down and gossiping with the other nurse but would get quite and try to listen to what I would say to my nurse even though it was all work related.
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  • 14
    I'm thinking about asking the DON (pretty much like a supervisor to nursing staff) to watch the camera at the nurses station so the can see how she jumped down my throat when I was minding my own business but I don't want to cause more problems. I probably sound ridiculous for getting so worked up over someone acting like a child but it really had me struggling to hold back.
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  • 15
    Expert-Angle-8214. 5 days ago NTA get the DON to check the cameras so you are covered in case she tries to make you look bad dont let her get away with being a bully in the work place thats how accidents happen 542 Reply Share
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  • 16
    Frog Lover618. 5 days ago I worked with a CNA like this. She was older and the only person who had worked at our facility long enough to train people. The problem with that is she would work one shift training a new person and then that person would quit and explain they were quitting because of this woman. Eventually, the DON had enough complaints
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  • 17
    as well as residents, that they finally fired her. Turns out she was treating the residents exactly the same as the rest of us in private and families started to complain. I would purposely go out of my way to be sickeningly sweet and nice to her because it got under her skin that no matter how she treated me, I was always overly nice to her. She didn't get a rise out of me and her off. She told one it of the other CNAs that it was her goal to get me to quit, but she never broke me and was gone
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  • 18
    she would give us in the most bitchy tone possible when she left. That's when she finally realized that I acted the way I did towards her to her off. 216 Reply Share
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  • 19
    Prestigious-Ear-8877. 5 days ago you need to call out people who pull that IN THE MOMENT!! Let her know that her place is not down your throat. Don't ever allow anyone to treat you that way, or you will be forced to put up with it your entire career. 115 Reply Share ...
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