'Money is more important than chemistry': Woman Dates a Millionaire Who Doesn’t Want to Be Seen in Public With Her, Friends Tell Her to Stay With Him for the Money

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    I'm 24F dating a millionaire 32M but I want to walk away. Something just seems off. Am I an idiot for this?
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    I've only been seeing this guy for a month. We've gone out for coffee once, and all the other times have been at his place (we have not had yet, and he hasn't tried to). He told me
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    he doesn't like to go out too much in public because he attracts attention due to his car. He is pretty well known in my area and is worth millions.
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    Here's the thing. I don't like hanging out at his place every single time. But I feel like I can't complain because he bought me my first designer bag. I also don't know if I can do this life.
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    Whenever I'm with him he's getting loads of texts on his phone from women. Flirtatious texts. Even shop assistants hit on him. I get it, he's a millionaire. But idk if I could put up with it long term.
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    He told me that if we're together long term I will have to cook and clean for him (every day). Honestly I wouldn't mind cooking for someone I love, but Im not really good at it and he suggested that I make really
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    extravagant meals that are way out of my reach. I also work 50 hours a week, and really really love my job so being a housewife is just not for me. He also believes men should be 'alpha' and never 'submissive'. I
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    didn't question it. He's already told me he wants a family with me which I thought was pretty early to express that? My friends told me I'm an idiot if I walk away from him because he can change my life and I'll
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    really regret it. But honestly, I'm happy with an average life. I never dreamed of marrying a rich guy, or having extravagant things. Im a romantic at heart, I really want genuine love. But at
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    the same time, my friend's comments have been stuck in my mind. Thoughts? TLDR; been dating a millionaire for a short time. He's nice enough, but something isn't
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    right. We have different lifestyles and I want a genuine connection but my friends say I'm an idiot if I walk away.
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    a_raptor_ 22 hr. ago You are not an idiot for walking away. I could put a novel here on WHY you should walk away but you only asked one question and therefore I, and
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    the rest of anyone on Reddit with two brain cells, will agree that you are NOT an idiot for walking away from money. In fact, I commend you.
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    AlbatrossCapable3231 · 22 hr. ago Lol if I liked a girl enough and was a millionaire, I'd get a mid price ranged car to treat her to something other than my couch once in a while. He's playing you. Sorry to say but, anyway, he would always lord the money and power he
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    has over you. I don't know what he's up to at a detailed level, obviously, but in my 37 years as a male on this planet, I am here to tell you: Money doesn't buy chemistry.
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    Find someone who gives you the fire. Don't waste your time with a guy who is looking for an adult au pair who isn't even good enough to be seen out and about with him. If I could, I'd punch him in his rich mouth for this
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    [UPDATE] I'm 24F dating a millionaire 32M but I want to walk away. Something just seems off. Am I an idiot for this?
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    Sooo... I was not expecting my post to blow up how it did. I've received some great advice, and some people think it's a made up story. I can assure you, it's not made up. By the way, I've never seen 50 shades of grey.
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    Many of you said that it's suspicious he doesn't want to take me out despite having so much money. So, I decided to simply ask if we could go out. I thought his response would tell me all I need to know.
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    He asked me to come over that night to hang out at his place. I replied to him "I would love to see you, but can we go out tonight? It will be fun to change it up! :)" He replied with "I'm tired from working. I can possibly take you out next week." I said "not even
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    somewhere lowkey, like a quiet dinner somewhere? I mean we're already hanging out at your place anyway." He replied "if you like, we won't meet up tonight and we will just go another time when I can take you out." I said sure no problem.
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    A couple of hours later, I noticed he deleted me off every social media platform! seriously annoyed that I ? He's suggested to go out? I prepared a nice farewell text for him (sarcasm) but then I deleted it.
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    He's not worth an angry paragraph. I simply just blocked him and will move on with my life. I feel so much relief already, I can't even explain the horrible gut feeling I had about this guy.
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    It's not worth to gain the world but sell your soul in return. I learnt something from this. Thanks everyone.
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    Mammoth Might8171 · 4 hr. ago . edited 2 hr. ago Looks like he only wanted a relationship with you on his terms or you were his "dirty little secret" both are just as bad. U definitely made the correct decision to walk away
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    therockActor 4 hr. ago Gotta say he sounds pretty sus. Not worth your time lol

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