Sister demands Brother change newborn son's name in case she wants to use it: 'I laughed in her face... My parents started to freak out'

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    "I laughed in her face... My parents started to freak out."
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    AITA for dismissing my sister saying I need to rename my son because it's on her baby list and telling my parents she better buy the rights for names if she wants to stop people using them?
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    This is so petty but maybe I went too far. I (26f) have an older sister Jade (28f) who is not in a relationship, is not pregnant and is not planning to have kids anytime soon. While I had my son a few days ago. I'm not close to my family. There's a very big golden child thing with Jade and my parents really should have stopped at their one perfect darling kid (what they call her) because I got the short end of the stick with them always.
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    So when they found out my son's name is Finnick, Jade came and told me I could not call him Finnick and needed to rename my son because Finnick is on her baby boy name list so she's going to use it one day and not me. I laughed in her face and told her to leave and dismissed her request by saying she had no authority in this.
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    My parents decided to jump in the next day and they told me I should listen to my sister and choose another name to be a good sister to Jade. They said to think about how Jade would feel and she prides herself on that list. I decided to bring some snark into this and my response was simply that if Jade wants to own the rights to names then she better get rich fast and buy those names because otherwise she cannot stop people from using the ones on her list, not even me. For the record, I know it
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    My parents started to freak out over this and basically told me I was being a bully saying things like that and how dare I dismiss Jade. I threw them out too. And what followed was texts from Jade and my parents saying I had no reason to treat them so rudely. I blocked them. I might be done. But did I go too far? AITA?
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    OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the a☐le: I dismissed my sister telling. me to rename my son because the name I chose was on her list. I also got very snarky with my parents and told them she better buy the names if she wants to stop people using them. It's all very petty but I might have responded like a petty a le, especially with the snark comment I made about her owning the name. It might have been a little much.
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    PowerfullyWeak ΝΤΑ If you looked over your sister's list and told her certain names were off limits because they were on YOUR list, would she offer you the same benefit? Of course not. This is the action of a child who was given special treatment by your parents and never told "no" in life. She grew up into an adult who doesn't seem to
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    comprehend that there are other people in the world and you cannot dictate the "terms" of another person's life. You name your baby whatever it is you wish to name them. You tell your sister that she survived the millions of other people having the same name as her future baby, so she'll survive yours if you happen to choose that name.
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    DoodleyDooderson 18 hr. ago • Act concerned and be like, " ok. What are the other names on her list, boys and girls, so I don't acccidentally use another one. Then every time you get a pet, (even a goldfish) or if you have another baby, just start using her names one by one. NTA, but you could be really petty if you want.
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    Start calling your husband/wife by one of her names as a "nickname". Claim your new mom group has all the names. Name the plants in your house those names. Your car, a random bush, your favorite spatula, a throwpillow.
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    • Nrysis 18 hr. ago NTA The name is on Jade's list? Funnily enough, it is also on your list too, and you have equal right to use it as she does - you got there first, you get the name. If Jade had given birth to a baby and chosen 'your' name, would she be changing it for you?
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    SamBartlett1776 18 hr. ago NTA. Tell yoursister and parents that Jade can use the name too because those cousins will never meet.
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    Tattedtail 18 hr. ago • If you didn't know it was on her list, then NTA. If you did know and used it anyway... I personally still think NTA, but I know some people get really attached to their lists of names. Also, Jane "prides herself on that list"?? Does she not have anything else going for her?
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