‘Thems the breaks, lady’: Hobbyist woodworker stands up to an entitled mother enforcing her kids' bedtime on the whole neighborhood

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    "I could have said a lot more!”
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    Neighbour thinks her kids' bedtime should decide when I can do my hobbies
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    My neighbour (f27) has 5 kids and one more on the way. She doesn't work (she's not ill or anything - just chooses not to) lives off benefits and is all sorts of entitled. Tonight, I was
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    working on my brother's birthday present and this included needing to make a few cuts with the chop saw. It was 9pm and I was done
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    by 9:15pm. (In my country, the curfew for noise/noise disturbance is 11:30pm.) She then sends me this long fb message about how her kids' bedtime is 8pm
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    and therefore I need to not use power tools after that time, and could I only use them in the day time so as to not wake her kids. I
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    replied saying I was done now (bear in mind she sent that message after literally less than 10mins of noise) and that I couldn't confine my usage to daytime because I have a job.
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    I felt like saying to her "your kids are going to be living with a screaming newborn in a few months, so maybe focus on teaching them to sleep without it being perfectly silent" but I restrained myself.
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    Even so, the very little I did say clearly set her off she sent me another paragraph about her kids needing to be ready for school at 8am before blocking me.
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    crujones43 1d ago . I have a shop and I always try to keep the power tools off after 9pm. (Noise bylaws say 11) However, one day in the dead of winter, our furnace died. I wanted to start up my
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    wood stove as I had a wife, 2 kids, and water pipes I didn't want to burst. I had no small pieces of wood ready. I needed to chop enough to get the fire started at 6am. I absolutely
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    hated my neighbor, but I still felt sooo bad making noise. I swung the axe 4 times at the wood pile between our houses and then got the fire going. He told all my other neighbors that I ALWAYS chopped wood at 6am.
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    GotWiings21 • 1d ago Chop saw for 15 mins probably means OP cut a few pieces of wood. Not like it was cutting the entire 15 mins. I have a neighbor who likes to rev his engine at 6 am because he thinks his bare bones stock Camaro is badass. ITS NOT
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    mindovermatter421 1d ago Send her Amazon links to white noise machines.
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    PerfSynthetic 1d ago Just tell her you need the saw to drown out the sounds of screaming and crying children.
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    Fluffy_data_doges • 1d ago This is the late night version of someone mowing their lawn at 7am.
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    pickledshallots • 15h ago Ugh idk, like I'm a childfree adult and like you, have limited time to work with my tools due to work and other factors. But I'm pretty cautious when I need to use tools past 9pm. I
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    had to hammer on a piece of batten board that fell off and it was 9pm and it woke the kid next door, and idk... i really wouldn't start using power tools that late unless it was urgent
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    AndiRM 1d ago I feel for your neighbor because that's legit right at bed time and the desperation I feel to get these little spawns to bed so I can recharge for the next day is real. However, I
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    would never DREAM of telling someone they can't do anything on their own property at a reasonable hour (unless it was like every day in which case I'd explain my plight with
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    a good bottle of whiskey in hand and pray my neighbor could accommodate me). Thems the breaks lady take the L and crank up the white noise machine.

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