30+ Stunned wedding guests share the worst weddings they've ever attended: 'What's the worse wedding you’ve been to and what happened?'

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Brad Dickson • Managing Editor
Jul 6, 2024 10:00 AM EDT

Weddings are an interesting social phenomenon. For starters, the bride and groom's first task is to literally rank their family and closest friends by order of importance to them in order to form their bridal parties, almost like we're back on MySpace with our Top Friends ranked and audaciously on display… From there, everyone else gets a rank, too, with what table they're seated at the reception, letting everyone know loud and clear "where they sit" on your social ladder. If you're seated at a rear table, I've got some bad news for you…

There's so much importance placed on the day of the wedding, and some people dream about their perfect wedding their entire life. And, you pretty much have to become a full-time event organizer in order to plan it properly on top of your normal everyday obligations. Predictably, when you've never planned an event before, there's a lot that can go wrong even if you have the best of intentions; there are a lot of moving parts that you don't have complete control over, and when it's the "best and most important" day of your life that you're planning you're probably not going to settle for any less than perfect—that or you're not going to properly consider all of your guests needs.

The members of this online community gathered to share their own stories of the worst weddings they had ever attended, from family drama to just downright terrible planning… These stories have it all.

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    "What's the worse wedding you’ve been to and what happened?"

    madcats323 10 hr. ago The groom got into a fistfight with one of the bartenders and one of the guests got so dok the EMTs were called. The police car that carried the groom away was closely followed by the ambulance. I actually consider it one of the best weddings I've been to, at least in terms of being memorable, but the bridal couple (who are still married 20-odd years later) may disagree.
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    IAmDyspeptic 10 hr. ago I went to a wedding where the bride insisted on travelling by horse and carriage to the reception, it took ages as the venue was a few miles away from the church. Everyone was just standing around waiting for the bride and groom to show up. When they eventually turned up, the bride insisted on her and her new husband going to their hotel room to consummate the marriage (she was desperate to get pregnant). So even more standing around until they showed up. It was all reall
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    Noahthe Red 10 hr. ago · • edited 9 hr. ago Went to a dry wedding. That's not just a description of the drink situation, but the entire affair in general. It was in a tent, in summer, in the south. Dress code specified men had to wear jackets during the ceremony. Women couldn't have 'overly exposed' shoulders or low cuts. Linen was not allowed. Ceremony itself took just shy of 2 hours and included multiple speeches by the bride, groom,
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    and the minister. Both fathers sang gospels. The best man played acoustic guitar for like 10 minutes. The guests had to reconfigure the tent after the ceremony for the reception while the wedding party did photos. It was still summer. We found out there were assigned seats when the wedding planner went table to table and called out who was to sit where.
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    We would be released to the buffet by the bride/groom, table by table. They stopped to chat with every table, take pics, etc. No dancing. The location was by a lake with a dock and patio area down at the water. We were to stay in the tent. More speeches were given. The bride and groom paused releasing people to eat for each speech. The sweet tea was weak.
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    The brides father gave a long speech in which he only mentioned his daughter twice....both times were in reference to giving his son-in- law healthy baby boys. The best man played guitar again. The cake was in the sun. The buffet was dry BBQ that the groom and his new FIL smoked.....the day before. All brisket. Sides were just mac'n'cheese and salad.
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    I left between when my table got released and the cake cutting. Partially because I was starving, partially because I had 100% sweat through my entire suit, and partially because I'd arrived six hours ago. My +1 (a family friend) and I went with my mom to an applebees or something that as close by. At least a dozen of the tables there were other guests we recognized. I swear I saw a woman cry when they brought her a margarita.
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    We heard that the reception continued late into the evening, including the bride and groom asking the (remaining) guests to all share a memory they have with them. They spelled my name wrong on the thank you card.
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    Billbapaparazzi - 10 hr. ago It was in the middle of nowhere, held at a "country club" which I don't think had ever hosted an event of any kind. There was one motel in the town, there were no rooms left. So we planned to drive the 3-4 hours there, see the Wedding, leave when they got to the part of the reception when the dancing and partying started. We arrived, went in and there was hardly anyone there? We make our way to where they are going to have the ceremony in some court yard and the chai
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    are all blowing away and there are some staff trying to chase them down. But there had to have been a couple of hundred chairs and there couldn't have been more than 20 or 30 of us. I don't even know who rented all the rooms, that's what I kept thinking about. We sat and were almost amused in a horrified kinda way. But, no one else showed up and, the start time came and went uncomfortably... without anyone but the few guests showing up...
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    Turns out there was no wedding. Someone cheated on someone the night before and there was a big fight that morning? Thing is I never really learned the details. At that moment all that happened was someone from the venue finally came out, and said, "sorry" in the most awkward way, and that we should go home because the entire thing was being canceled.
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    TheThalmorEmbassy 10 hr. ago • It was at a Mormon church, and for some reason Mormon churches have indoor basketball courts in them. Half of the court was a wedding reception, and the other half was a pickup basketball game being played by a bunch of strangers who wouldn't leave The ball hit the food table a couple times
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    angepet 53.9 hr. ago We went to a friend's wedding about 20 years ago in a sweet little town. Hotel was lovely and also the site of the reception. The wedding was early, at around lunch time in a big French catholic cathedral. It was about 95 degrees outside and the church was not air conditioned. The wedding was a full mass plus actual wedding ceremony. We were starving, hot and thirsty by the time it ended. There were cocktails at the hotel while photos were being taken,
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    which, took 3 hours. We didn't want to eat because we were expecting dinner. Everyone took their seats, did the usual speeches and such. There was NEVER any food! We left and ordered pizza in our room The following day, there was gift opening with brunch. The brunch was had before by the bride and groom and their families, not for guests. It was a very hungry weekend
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    Result New9072 10 hr. ago My husband's step sister's wedding was dry and everyone got food poisoning. They had a receiving line and my MIL threw a massive tantrum and pouted because "it made her uncomfortable"
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    Pistalrose 10 hr. ago • Meal was given depending on whether you were bride or groom's side and there was a big difference. Parents of the bride and groom had very different financial statuses and they each provided for 'their' guests based on that. We had hand stamps.
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    Intrepid-Fox-7231 - 9 hr. ago The bride wanted her cat at the wedding and the groom and his best man brought the uncaged cat in the car and went through the car wash right before the wedding. The cat freaked and scratched up the grooms face and all over the best man's tux and hour before the wedding.
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    CrackFree Download 9 hr. ago • Grooms mother came to the bride's room where we were all snacking and getting ready and generally having a good time, listening to music and doing hair and makeup. She wanted to say some heartfelt message to the bride. Now the bride's father had passed away not long before, so we were doing everything we could to keep things upbeat and positive. Mother of the groom proceeds to tell her all about how her dad is looking down from heaven in happy tears and how he hate
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    Her makeup is now in her decolletage and her nose is red and running. The MOG hands her back to us by saying, "Oh dear, she can't walk down the aisle like this!" and leaves the room. We spend half an hour calming the bride down, cooling her face, fixing her makeup. The ceremony started late and the maid of honor had just a basic ponytail because we had to spend so much time on damage control. The bride spent most of the reception just sitting and looking exhausted. The MOG danced her socks off.
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    PrivateTumbleweed 10 hr. ago We were invited to the reception but not the ceremony. When we arrived, it was as if the reception had been going on for a couple of hours already. The bride seemed surprised we were there. We grabbed our gift off the table and left.
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    • iamgotch 11 hr. ago I attended a family wedding where the groom told his mother in law about an hour before the ceremony that he didn't like her. There were a lot of tears but the bride married him anyway. After the reception, he got dak and tossed his wedding ring into a field and a wedding guest found it the next morning. Somehow they are still married but I don't have a lot of hope for their future.
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    Bob Vilas Beard 10 hr. ago • About 15 years ago I went to a small wedding in Las Vegas as the Maid of Honor's date. Almost immediately after the ceremony, the newlyweds got into an argument about something (I have no idea what) and the bride and groom ran off in separate directions. My then- girlfriend went to chase after the bride and everyone else chased after the groom. Within less than a minute, everyone was gone and I had no service on my phone, so I hung out in the casino alone for about t
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    Ok-Benefit197. 10 hr. ago Weddings where the best man uses the speeches to see if he really could have been a stand up comedian. Been to three where that happened- so embarrassing
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    ClareSwinn 10 hr. ago . The bride had an audible, profanity laden and very loud meltdown in the church entry way that reverberated around congregation because her elderly Grandmother had not adhered to her preferred colour theme. She wanted everyone in black and white so her dress would stand out. Apparently the tiny lady who loved her RUINED EVERYTHING due to her duck egg blue hat. It was INSANE
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    OddGood8617 - 10 hr. ago I worked a wedding where the bride's ENTIRE family didn't show. They didn't support the marriage. Empty tables everywhere NationalCounter5056 10 hr. ago My husbands family did that to us. 37 yrs later still happily married
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    Shieldor 10 hr. ago Wedding in Florida- very beautiful. However, it was raining (of course), and lighting and thunder started up when they started their vows. It shook the church, it was so loud. And it stopped when they finished their vows. I mean it wasn't a bad wedding, just memorable, due to the weather. (No, they didn't stay married)
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    . Acrobatic-Midnight28 10 hr. ago The entire wedding was just extremely dysfunctional and seemed like it hadn't been thought through at all. At one point during the ceremony, someone's phone rang very loudly, which was shocking enough in itself... but you should've seen everyone's face when he said "hello!?" and quite literally continued on to have a conversation.
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    tizod 10 hr. ago • I was invited to a coworkers wedding at a really nice country club. Both of them were New Yorkers and the bride was a very strong confidant no kind of woman. The priest who was supposed to officiate the wedding fell ill so the church sent in a backup or relief priest (didn't know that was a thing). Dude starts the ceremony and proceeds to launch into this whole speech about how, according to the Bible, the wife is supposed to be subservient to the man and take care of making h
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    We all knew the bride well and watched in amazement as she managed to keep her together but we could tell she was absolutely fuming. After the ceremony ended and she ran off to cry her whole family, including her father and brothers, had the priest cornered and I legitimately thought they were going to beat the living out of the guy.
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    • TemperatureWest1230 9 hr. ago Had to attend this one wedding, it was pretty bad. Essentially, they tried to do it on a budget, but it just ended up looking cheap. The worst part was when the bride's ex showed up uninvited and made a scene. Super awkward for everyone. Then the DJ played some really questionable songs that were not appropriate for the crowd. Plus, the whole thing was outside and it started raining, but they didn't have a backup plan. The food was cold, and they ran out of drinks
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    5footfilly 9 hr. ago . This was over 30 years ago. I grew up with the groom. The wedding itself was beautiful. Up till the bride decided one of the female guests was flirting with the groom and proceeded to take a swing at her. While dressed in her poofy white gown. Marriage lasted 6 weeks.
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    Darnbeasties 9 hr. ago. • Outside, right after the church wedding, bride told groom that he shouldn't have worn his stupid glasses to the wedding. And told him that his father should go himself Unbelievably still married after 30 years
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