Wife wants to send back $7000 wedding gift because husband's dance with sister was 'too intimate': 'The gift just made her feel insecure'

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    My wife wants me to return back my sister's wedding gift because she thought our sibling dance was too intimate.
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    My wife (26F) and I (28M) got married a couple of months ago. The wedding was amazing, we also went on an amazing honeymoon. Everything went great, and we have settled into our nice married life.
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    However, last night, my wife wanted to talk about something serious. We don't shy away from expressing our emotions and insecurities to each other. She brought up our wedding and she talked about how my sibling dance with my sister (26F) was
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    too intimate. I first thought my wife was joking, but I quickly realized she was serious. I asked her if anyone else at the wedding thought that, and she said no, but because everyone was too scared to say it. I told her that's a straight up lie; and I have close
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    friends who would have said something, but they didn't. Everyone had a good time at the wedding, and nothing seemed out of the ordinary. My sister and I have never really shied away from affection, we know some siblings get awkward with that, but we're the opposite of that.
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    My wife then asked if we could give my sister's wedding gift back to her as we haven't used it yet. It's a La Marzocco GS3 espresso machine, which is by far the most expensive gift we have gotten out of all the gifts. My wife said the gift just made her feel insecure.
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    I told my wife she was being incompletely irrational, and that's the most ridiculous thing she has ever said. I was probably a bit crude with my words, but I just thought the whole thing was ridiculous. She then dropped the topic and we carried on like normal. We also used the espresso machine for the first time today, and it's pretty amazing.
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    Was I an AH for telling my wife she was being ridiculous?
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    shamespiral60 16 hr. ago I need to see the wedding video.
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    IrrelevantLyric7. 15 hr. ago Maybe it will be viral by next week.
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    GingerPrince72. 15 hr. ago WTAF is a wedding sibling dance?
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    Successful_Moment_91 .15 hr. ago Maybe something like the MotherBoy dance in Arrested Development
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    Massive-Nobody-56. 16 hr. ago You say you don't shy away from affection from your sister. What does that mean in the context of a dance? That is vague, at best, and I've never heard of a sibling dance at a wedding. You didn't really give any context. as to why your wife might have thought what she did.
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    Cute-Shine-1701. 16 hr. ago OP's comment: I don't really remember much. The theme was slow dancing, some of the songs I remember were At Last (Etta James) and All of Me (John Legend).
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    Libs4trump 16 hr. ago It would be insulting for you to return the gift to your sister, but it's also not worth causing a rift with your new wife. The right thing to do is to give me the Marzocco. That's a nice machine!
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    AsparagusOverall8454. 15 hr. ago Multiple slow dances with your sister IS weird.
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    • ghjkl098 16 hr. ago It sounds like your wife is right based on the songs you danced with your sister to. Why was there more than one? Why did you slow dance with your sister to what are
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    obviously very intimate songs traditionally used as bride and groom songs?? It sounds to me like your wife is right but you and your sister just haven't realised how inappropriate it is
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    gameboy330 16 hr. ago. What's the song you were dancing through Sweet home Alabama.

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