Aunt allows 7-year-old niece to see mom who's only allowed to have supervised visits with CPS, attacks sister with custody for questioning it: 'No need for me to tell you because that is her mom'

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    AITA for telling my aunt & family that they've lost access to my sister?
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    A few days ago, I 23F was supposed to pick up my little sister 7F (whom I have sole custody of) but my Aunt 32F overstepped and said she would pick her up and drop her off to me. She took 45 minutes to do so although, I live 10mins away and was only 5 away from pickup. Fast forward to the next day, my little sister informs me that while she was with our Aunt, she saw
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    our estranged mother whom is only allowed to be seen during supervised visits with CPS only. I texted my Aunt and asked her if it were true. She began telling me there was "no need for me to tell you because that is her mom” and she began attacking me verbally. She said she isn't wrong for hiding it, she invalidated how I felt, she disregarded how crucial it is for me to know these things.
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    The rest of my family also began to text me. My grandma even took her side. I told them that they have lost access for not understanding the sacrifices I've made for my sister, not understanding that I've committed the rest of my life to this & not respecting my wishes. AITA?
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    hBoBh 1 day ago nta, mom has COURT ORDERS about her visitation. they all just helped her break those and could get in A LOT of trouble
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    MilaniesMoney OP. 1 day ago Thanks! Thats exactly what I told them! That, I can get in trouble for their wrong doing & so can they!
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    AriesRedWriter · 1 day ago Have you documented this? Always cover your
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    Tachibana_13 · 23 hr. ago And inform any schools or activities that now you are the ONLY person authorized to pick up your sister. In an email, so you have evidence.
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    wtfwit 23 hr. ago And consider getting legal advice to ensure you're fully protected and that they understand the severity of their actions.
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    toke420chickenwang⚫ 22 hr. ago You should also notify CPS about the incident. They need to be aware, and it will further protect you and your sister.
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    SweetWaterfall0579 19 hr. ago. This. All you have to do is call. Get them in the trouble they deserve. This is your child! They knew the rules and they went against the rules. Stupid people! NO ONE is allowed to question you again.
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    Once CPS hears this, they are done. OP, you are absolutely correct. They broke the The laws meant to protect the child! Blast them. Go scorched earth, little sister.
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    P.S. I adopted my granddaughter because CPS took her from my son and his former fiancée. We found out they were drug addicts when we found out the baby was addicted. I get you. You're too young for this and I'm too old. But here we are, because we love them. I'm here, if you want to message.
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    naivemetaphysics . 18 hr. ago OP you need to do this soon. The longer you wait, the more suspicious it looks and the more options your family has to drive a wedge or use it against you.
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    chez2202 21 hr. ago A trusted friend should be added in case of an emergency where OP cannot physically get to the school. But definitely not any family.
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    Cartmansimon 1 day ago Don't tell them they COULD be in trouble. They ARE in trouble. Then call whatever authorities are appropriate.
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    meadow_chef. 22 hr. ago Child endangerment is a significant crime and your family members who are sneaking around are going to find out just how those charges can ruin their lives if they keep acting like idiots. Protect your sister and keep her away from all of them. And please report what happened to her case worker.
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    • Canadian_01 1 day ago NTA Tell them that their actions could essentially f*(k up the entire visitation process for the mom!
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    Tell them that you're following the rules which are in place for a reason (whatever that is, the aunt and grandmother know well the problem with 'mom'), and that if under YOUR watch your sister has been allowed to see her mom unsupervised, it might even mess up your custody and put your sister's custody in jeopardy and take her away from ALL of you. So tell them that apparently YOU'RE the only grown-up here (which is why you have custody and they dont') and that it's easy to act irresponsibly wh
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    Thank you for being there for her, and please seek out others in your family or a support of some kind to help you through this nightmare family you have. Your sister is lucky to have you.
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    MilaniesMoney OP. 1 day ago Thank you!!! You literally touched every single point. I have never felt so seen and heard. This has been a lot on me with my family trying to make me out to be the villain so, thank you, thank you thank you.

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