"I swear that he could've whispered it from across the ocean and I would've heard."
Dating when you're an older adult after having been previously married or in a serious relationship is a different type of beast.
After all, you have to share a lot of the very unhappy moments in your time alive in addition to the good moments. When you're dating someone and searching for monogamy, you can only hope that the person you've been seeing has your best interest (and is interested in monogamy, too.) Sometimes, you get hit with a curve ball that will influence you to rethink the last year of your relationship. The woman in this story sure has.
She was having a casual talk with her significant other about past relationships and marriages when he let something strange slip out.
He's still technically legally married although estranged for 15 years.
The man swears up and down that he mentioned this very soon beginning to see the woman, and his mother is backing him up on this. His reasoning is that he has insurance on his wife, and is interested in getting a payout from her as she is very irresponsible financially and in general. The woman expresses multiple times that she would have remembered, and would have heard him say it if he had told her. She doesn't know what to think.
Scroll ahead to read the entire story, as well as some comments from folks who think that this might be a big mistake and that this gaslighting can become even more serious if she decides to stick with him.
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