Man Refuses to Raise Bio Son After Wife’s Infidelity is Exposed, Creating Legal Mess When He Files for Divorce

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    r/AITAH ⚫ 16 hr. ago . Specialist Jumpy9435 AITAH because I told my ex to take child support and leave me alone otherwise.
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    I was with my ex wife Linda for ten years. I found out in January this year she was cheating on me. I moved back to my parent's house and initiated a divorce. She informed me in March that she was pregnant. I told her "hooray" and hung up.
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    That was our only contact on it. I have blocked her in every way and only communicate through my lawyer.
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    My family all want me to forgive her. Not to be with her, just to.forhive her so the kid can be art of their lives. I said their relationship with her had. to do with me and that if they kept bringing her up I would leave. all
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    They kept bringing her up so I moved to Oregon. My family and my ex all live in Raleigh. The guy she was sleeping with is not interested in being a father so he bailed. There was a paternity test and yay me I'm the sperm donor.
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    After the kid was born I told my lawyer to get me the minimum child support and to cut my parental rights. My ex is upset about that. She managed to get in contact and went off on me. She thinks I'm the ......... for abandoning a kid who is innocent and deserves a father. I think I would not be a good person to have around that kid.
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    I told her to take the child support and AITAH? off.
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    • stiggley 15h ago If your family want to be in the kids life, then they need to arrange it with your ex- wife.
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    writingmmrom... 16h ago • A part of me wonders if her pregnancy wasn't an attempt on her part to get OP to stay? Essentially, yeah I cheated but now we're pregnant and we need to raise the baby together.
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    CynicalXennial 14h ago • These comments are WILD
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    lufus07 14h ago · INFO: People are saying this was a planned pregnancy, that you guys had been trying since last year. So, when exactly did you found out the cheating? And how does a planned pregnancy becomes "none of your business" since you now
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    dislike the mother??? Was there even enough time for an abortion or was it too late? It is not the kid's fault you have a bad taste in women and got together with a cheater. (Isn't it what they tell single mothers all the time? "You choose a terrible baby dad, now deal with it") You decided to
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    make the kid, now you have to take the consequences.
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    . testbunnie 14h ago • You're both feel bad for the child. and I
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    mouseywalla • 10h ago • INFO: How old are you? You say you were with this person for 10 years, but your comments read as someone with little life experience. Or at least little growth.
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    mynameisnots... • 15h ago. If you are forced to be a part of this child's life you will definitely show this resentment to the child. Did you ever discuss having children before all this happened?
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    NTA but I truly feel bad for baby...
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    Kaiser93 13h ago • ESH I pity your poor child. Both of you are gigantic AHs.
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    Malipuppers 3h ago • The only person I feel bad here for is that kid. YTA for abandoning the child. She messed up not him. You still helped bring that child into the world.
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    enaj259 11h ago • Just to clarify, you have with your then wife, father a baby and now you're punishing the child due to what she did to you? That child didn't ask for this. This should be a proud moment for you, YTA.. I feel so sorry for that baby.

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