You can trust your partner wholeheartedly, but if they're hanging around friends who have questionable morals, you'd start questioning your partner's morals, too. I mean, how could your partner be okay with others taking part in infidelity if they didn't believe in it themselves? Do you want to be best gal pals with your husband's friend's mistress? Likely not. I'd even consider it strange if one didn't question their partner's judgment if they were friends with cheaters, even if said cheaters claim the arrangement works for their marriage.
The original poster (OP) of this story thought she had met her husband's friend's wife. Her husband's friend openly admits (in a laughing manner) that the woman she had met is not his wife. Flabbergasted, the OP asks her husband who the woman is, and he explains that she is his mistress who "he actually loves and takes everywhere". This brings up many different emotions for the OP, especially because she has previously expressed that she feels like a "trophy wife" while her husband lives it up with his "bachelor" friends. She refuses to see eye-to-eye on this one because if her husband is okay with being around this type of behavior, he might be okay with taking part in it, too.
