Selfish coworker throws tantrum at work bestie for not throwing her a going away party: 'I did nothing. Her last day came and went'

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    "Apparently I'm incredibly selfish and lazy for not going out of my way to tell people she was retiring and arranging gifts"
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    Selfish coworker retiring. I'm the go to organiser at work, I get birthday cards signed, organise gifts and make a fuss of people
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    when they celebrate big birthdays. I hit a big birthday and I got nothing. My 'work bestie' bluntly said 'we didn't get you a card or present
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    because I don't know how to do that stuff' I smile and said 'that's fine. I'm never doing it again'
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    Work bestie announced she's retiring. She's been talking about it for a while but never really discussed it with my boss. She finally told him
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    about it and for some reason she gave him 6 months notice. She doesn't have a difficult job, there is half a days training involved. She's easily replaceable, it's not going to be difficult.
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    She had been saying to other coworkers that she's taking 6 months off because it's a decent amount of time for me to go round with a collection
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    tin for her between the staff and customers. I did nothing. Her last day came and went. She said her goodbyes. Hugged everyone and went on her way.
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    She came in a couple of days later, some excuse about leaving some pens behind. Happened to coincide with our weekly
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    meeting when everyone was present. This is usually when people are presented with gifts. She was asked to leave as she was no longer an employee and the meeting was confidential.
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    I got a text from her telling me how disappointed she was in me that I hadn't arranged some money and gifts for
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    her and that there was no excuse. Apparently I'm incredibly selfish and lazy for not going out of my way to tell people she
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    was retiring and arranging gifts. I replied 'I don't know how to do that stuff'
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    Due_Fl... I love what your replied. The dish was served so well cold.
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    Jasmin... What a perfect response. When ingrates take advantage of your kindness, they earn their own reward-- which is nothing.
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    El_Cule... What is more satisfying than thowing someone's sh right back in their face.
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    eilyketoo Fancy coming back at the meeting time and expecting a gift and having to leave - too funny.
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    Polz34 It was her managers job to organise a leaving gift, not you. And they didn't!
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    iamsage1. OP... Fantastic!! | worked at a place where departments celebrated their coworkers birthdays,
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    so it was very common to see. I worked in three different departments during my 7 years there. I
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    had 4 surgeries. Never a card, gift or cake. Not even a candy bar from the machine, lol. However, I signed every card, and gave for every collection. I
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    guess I was so dumb. After I finally had to quit due to my 4th surgery, I was asked back a few days later. My
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    lead in our 4 man department bought cookies and got a card signed from most people I also did work for (I also proofread the carton artwork for books). I
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    was told, oh yeah, we did this because so and so said you never got a birthday card. Talk about bursting my feel good bubble. Didn't do it because they cared.....

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