Woman Kicks Out Step-daughter From Father’s Surprise Birthday Party After She Arrives Late and Throws a Tantrum, Resulting in Family Showdown: ‘If you hate us so much, you can leave’

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    r/AITAH⚫ 18 hr. ago SeaweedBackground220 AITAH for telling my step daughter that she can leave if she hates us so much?
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    My (39f) husband(40 m) has a daughter (18 f) from his previous marriage, Eliana. She has always been mean towards me and her little sister (10f). Eliana's mom ded while giving birth so it has always been her and her dad so i assumed that maybe it was because she feels like we took him from her.i tried my best to
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    make her feel better but that never happened and things got worse when her little sister was born
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    She says horrible things about my looks and my body which hurts. because I am very insecure when it comes to my body. she doesn't respect anything I or her father say or any of the rules in the house, she steals stuff from the house, She always finds ways to annoy me and oh boy does she like to say "I hate you". She treats
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    her little sister like poop and doesn't want a relationship with her. She doesn't even answer her phone anymore.
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    Me and my husband have talked about her behavior and tried everything to make it stop but she gets worse everything we try to fix things as a family. I have suggested therapy but she doesn't want to do it. She acts like a child
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    Well 2 week ago was her father's 40th bday and we had a little surprise party for him, I asked her if she could stay and decorate with us but she refused saying that she will go out with her friends.
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    Even when the party started I called her multiple times to tell her that the party started but she didn't answer and she came home after the cake was cut and people were already leaving.
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    she was angry at me for celebrating without her but I told her that I DID try to call her and that she didn't answer. She started accusing me of not wanting her and called me terrible names and said that she hates everyone of us and I told her that if she hates us so much then she can leave. she left the house and hasn't returned yet.
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    We have been calling all of our relatives but she is not there.
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    Shadow4sum... • 18h ago • NTA. Where is your husband during all this?
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    Immediate_Mu... • 17h ago Your husband needs to have a talk with his daughter.
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    PolarStar89 17h ago • Her father should have made sure that his daughter got therapy years ago. This issue has been going on for years and she's an adult now and nobody can drag her to therapy against her will.
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    It was naive of your husband to think that everything. would just work out.
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    donjuanamigo • 16h ago • Two hour old account. No replies by OP. Zero mention of what the father is doing during all of this. I'm going with a fake story and a poor attempt at karma farming.
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    Natenat04 17h ago • Why isn't your husband shutting her down, and taking charge of the situation? If he doesn't do anything then he approves of this behavior.
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    Still-Preferenc... • 16h ago I'm calling fake. What 40 year old says treats her - sister like poop - plus brand new account and no response to comments. The way it's written is screaming that a teenager wrote this.
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    cuteandcurvygal • 13h ago • Sounds like that girl's been looking for a reason to storm off, and now she's. found one, though I'm guessing she forgot her life isn't a soap opera.
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    Creepy-Stable-... • 18h ago • If the 18 year old wants to act like a child and leave, let her. She is an adult now and should act like one. Boohoo daddy remarried and had another baby. NTA, but stepdaughter is.
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    everellie 18h ago • If I had an 18 year old adult acting like that in my home, I think I'd be grateful if they moved themselves out.
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    Proper-Hippo-... • 13h ago • You don't have a child problem... you have a husband problem.

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