‘That’s your thing, not mine’: Woman refuses to let lazy boyfriend move in with her because he claims cleanliness is merely a choice, sneakily disguising his weaponized incompetence

It's important to have a place you can call your own—an oasis that you built, brick by brick, unwavering against anyone or anything that threatens it. That's the best thing about being a woman who lives alone. You can keep your space as tidy as you'd like without the possibility of another person dirtying up the residence and ruining all of your hard work. 

That's why moving in with a partner might be a daunting idea—you want to push aside their less-than-cleanly habits for the sake of love, but can't find it in yourself to sacrifice the tranquility and order you've had for so long.

In our next story, you'll find a woman who has been with her boyfriend for over a year. She expresses that her boyfriend has never been the clean type, and refuses to look after himself and the place he lives currently. When the woman tries to have a serious conversation about his nonexistent cleaning habits, he retorts, "That's your thing, not mine." Though he says he'll try to do better so they can live peacefully with one another when the time comes, she states that nothing changes. Instead of planning out how they'll decorate their bedroom, the woman is wondering if they will even make it long-term if this issue cannot be remedied.

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