Man Picks Woman up from Another Man’s House, She Reveals She Was Just on Another Date, He Demands She Leaves His Car in Response

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Bar Mor Hazut • Senior Editor
Dec 4, 2024 5:00 PM EST

When it comes to relationships, there are several basic common-sense rules that should not be explained to other people, especially when it comes to dating rules. But since stories like this one exist, it sounds like some people might need a refreshment, so here we go–Keep your attention off your phone, don't bring anyone else with you, avoid talking about past relationships, make eye contact, do the 'check dance', and don't have one date pick you up from another one!

If you read the title, you know that the last rule was pointed specifically towards the woman in this story, who thought it was appropriate to have one man pick her up from the house of another, while she dates both of them. Even though it is completely fine to date two people if it is still early on and you haven't established either relationship, doing this is just weird, and it is even weirder that she didn't feel awkward about it.

Keep scrolling to read the full tale. After that, check out this story of a woman who neglected to tell her hiring manager she was pregnant.

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    I told her thats a bit disrespectful to have me pick her up like this and she said it shouldn't bother me because we're not in a relationship...
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    Picked up my date...from her other date
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    Met a girl on Hinge, we've been talking and went on a first date. It went well. I asked her towards the end what her intentions are and she said she was looking for a long term relationship (likewise).
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    The second date comes around and I tell her I'll pick her up, but this time she sends me a different address from her home.
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    I pick her up and a guy gives her a hug and a peck on the cheek. When she gets in my car I asked her was that her friend, and she told me she was just on a date.
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    I told her thats a bit disrespectful to have me pick her up like this and she said it shouldn't bother me because we're not in a relationship... I told her kindly to leave my car and drove home.
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    Fweenci I'm trying so hard to imagine what kind of look a woman has on her face when she tells her date he's just picked her up from another date. OP, please describe, because this is wild.
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    We_there_yet ⚫ 3d ago • Haha yeah good on you. Dating these days has gotta be crazy as h_I
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    iDontUnitTest1 OP 3d ago • It's tricky nowadays, but you just cannot ignore the red flags.
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    MariaFlowerrr • 3d ago • Yikes, looks like you just got booked as the Uber, not the main event. That is SO disrespectful lol
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    CrunchyKittyLitter • 3d ago OP is a foodie call lol
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    BayouKev • 3d ago • She wanted him to pay for lunch & you to pay for dinner
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    Ok_Job_9417 • 3d ago Top 1% Commenter Yeah, having multiple dates is one thing. But picking them up directly from one is weird.
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    Rentsdueguys • 3d ago • Maybe she's looking for multiple long term relationships
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    gtclemson 3d ago • Probably told the first guy that "my Uber is here."
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    A2KneeCaps1Lion 3d ago • I had a girl one time tell me all about some date she was just on and couldn't wait to go on a second date with him. All while we haven't even gone on our first date.
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    Like, cool. I don't expect you to not be talking to other people when we're still in the talking phase but I don't care to hear about it.
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    Unusual-Ocelot4349 Wow I would feel so • 3d ago • disrespected if someone did to me what she did to you. She doesn't sound like a person who considers others' feelings at all. I wouldn't want to continue things with her either. Good on you for asking her to go away.
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    maddjointz • 3d ago When hinge says they're the "app designed to be deleted" it's actually out of pure frustration and not because you met someone
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    Nox-2021 3d ago • You did the right thing there. Respect!
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    Soul_Acquisition • 3d ago Top 1% Commenter You dodged a cannon with that, op.
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    ReactionJifs • 3d ago • (rings doorbell) "You're back soon!" "Yeah, I just got dumped by my other boyfriend." "???"
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    Diving Deep21 • 3d ago. She and her friends are now convinced that you are a red flag and that she dodged a bullet
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    jerry-attics43 • 3d ago • GOOD MAN, AND HE DIDNT GET UPSET ABOUT IT, NOW IF THIS WAS A WOMAN POSTING THIS HAPPENED? WHAT WOULD THIS COMMENT SECTION LOOK LIKE? LIKE MY COMMENT..ALL CAPS .LOL
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    iDontUnitTest1 OP 3d ago • • I didn't get upset. But I did find it Mildly Infuriating
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