'I wanted to enjoy my holiday, not work it': Barista draws the line after mom demands specialty lattes for 15+ relatives during family holiday gathering

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    AITA for refusing to make Starbucks drinks for my family on Thanksgiving?
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    AITA for refusing to make Starbucks drinks for my family on Thanksgiving? I (28F) worked at Starbucks for a little over two years, and ever since then, my family has loved
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    asking me to recreate their favorite drinks at home. I don't mind doing it once in a while, but it's not exactly my favorite thing—especially because I don't have all the equipment or supplies that Starbucks has.
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    This Thanksgiving, my mom. hosted dinner and invited a bunch of extended family. After we finished eating, she casually announced, "Okay, everyone, [my name] will be making Starbucks drinks for dessert!" I was totally
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    blindsided. Apparently, she had bought a bunch of syrups, whipped cream, and even a little espresso machine just for this. When I said I didn't really feel like making drinks for 15+
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    people, my mom got super annoyed and said, "It's not that hard for you―you used to do this all the time at work!" A few of my cousins started chiming in too, saying it would be fun and that they'd help. But I didn't
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    come to Thanksgiving to play barista for the whole family, so I stood my ground. Now my mom is upset, saying I embarrassed her after she went out of her way to buy all the
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    supplies. Some of my family thinks I was being selfish and that it wouldn't have taken that long. But I just wanted to enjoy the holiday, not work for it. AITA?
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    BreyeFox • 21h ago A hole Aficionado [14] NTA. That's a really strange family dessert option. 17K ○ Reply
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    AVeryBrownGirlNerd Part ipant [4] • 21h ago Edited 18h ago • She totally blindsided you and had the audacity to say you embarrassed her. Honestly, it sounds like her (and several others, it sounds) are using you when they don't feel like paying for Starbucks. Mmaybe, you should start charging them? That could get them to stop. "Op, can I have a pumpkin spice?"
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    "That would be $6.00 for a grande." Sometimes, money gets people to stop requesting things. ΝΤΑ. ETA: Thank you very much for the awards. Very kind of you. Honestly, no idea what they mean. But, thank you all the same. Just expressing my thoughts and trying to be respectful, of course. Take care! 5K > Reply ...
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    • • loseit_throwit 21h ago Edited 20h ago • Being a former barista myself, absolutely 100% NTA. For 15 drinks, with a little mini home espresso machine you would've been standing there "pulling shots" that are barely even a real shot for half an hour. Don't even get me started on trying to foam milk with a home machine. She easily could've asked ahead of time if you would be willing to whip up something like a pot of hot chocolate or another fun drink
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    that can be batched instead of lining up that many different espresso drink orders that she might not even have bought the proper ingredients for. Honestly, if your cousins want to learn to make coffee drinks, that could be fun if you have the opportunity to get all the ingredients together and plan it out so nobody's in their holiday best trying to learn how to steam milk or whatever. This was just absurd. 2.8K ○ Reply
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    Dapper Potato7854 • 21h ago • Hey everybody, uncle Steve is an auto mechanic, let's get everyone's cars lined up so he can work on them all! 1.5K ○ Reply
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    • HandBananasRevenge 21h ago • A h le Enthusiast [5] NTA. She didn't ask you first and then expected you to "perform" for the family. You were right to stand your ground.
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    I won't lie, a small part of me, had I been in your shoes, would have simply brewed and served a pot of coffee. After all, plain old coffee is a Starbucks drink, too. ✩ 1.3K ○ Reply
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    . MadPiglet42 • 21h ago • A h le Enthusiast [7] NTA. "You used to do this at work!" You're absolutely right. So pay me, then. 749 ○ Reply
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    deleted-user-12 • 21h ago • A hole Aficionado [11] Nta, your mom should have asked you first before buying anything and definitely before announcing it. I'm by no means a professional, but with my at-home espresso machine and equipment, it takes me about ten minutes to make a latte. I'm sure you'd be at least a little faster, and there is efficiency
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    in numbers, but without professional equipment, I imagine it would take at least an hour still to make 15 drinks. While easy to do, that's still exhausting and a big ask for someone at a holiday party. ○ Reply 439
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