Man sparks family tension after rejecting sister's pregnancy test as $100 Secret Santa gift: ‘She gave me a positive pregnancy test wrapped up to look like a DVD set of my favorite show’

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    "I just don't think a niece or nephew in six months counts as a Secret Santa present."
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    AITA for telling my sister that a pregnancy announcement doesn't count as a Christmas present?
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    My (32M) family gets together every year for Christmas for a week or so at a popular vacation spot in our state. This has been a tradition since I was a kid, and every year we do a Secret Santa exchange - anyone over 18 is put into the pool, which helps cut
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    down on expenses as you only need to purchase a present for one adult instead of all the siblings, parents, aunts, uncles, etc. (kids and teens under 18 would get individual presents, but the youngest is my sister who is
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    24f, so it hasn't come up for a while). My sister, 'Heather' (24f) is the one who had my name this year - she gave me a positive pregnancy test wrapped up to look like a DVD set of my favorite
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    show. I unwrapped it and congratulated her, but was curious about what happened to the DVDs - I thought maybe she had them set aside, since she had the packaging for the box set.
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    show. I unwrapped it and congratulated her, but was curious about what happened to the DVDs - I thought maybe she had them set aside, since she had the packaging for the box set.
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    She got mad and told me that her present to me and the family was the pregnancy, and that she didn't have the DVDs. I told her that I was happy for her, but felt a little cheated - the Secret Santa presents are supposed to be
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    either handmade or between $50 and $100, so they're usually high quality presents. Also, Heather didn't tell any of us that she was trying to get pregnant - she isn't married, and we don't love her
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    news anyways. I get that she was trying to be cute, but AITA for expecting the DVDs/a real present? Her present from my aunt was a $100 gift card to a spa she loves, for reference. My
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    present? Her present from my aunt was a $100 gift card to a spa she loves, for reference. My parents think I should just be happy there will be a niece or nephew, but it still doesn't seem fair, and I just don't think a niece or nephew in six months counts as a secret santa present.
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    Slim-Reaper2 • 12h ago. NTA, a "gift" like that is really only acceptable to her significant other. You deserved a real gift.
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    Ok_Stable7501 • 11h ago • Top 1% Commenter Your gift is a stick she peed on? Eww, NTA
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    NefariousnessFresh24 • 12h ago • 18 Top 1% Commenter Congratulations - you won free babysitting duties for the next 14 to 16 years....
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    boredathome1962 • 11h ago • Top 1% Commenter NTA... but you know what to do for her baby shower... A box for a buggy & adverts for baby clothes
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    Ready-Raccoon-9180 • 12h ago You should tell her the gift doesn't count as 'hand made' because if it was in fact 'hand made' then she wouldn't be in this predicament hahaha
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    dancingqueen_420 • 12h ago NTA. Personally I would've been ped. Like I get that she's excited about it but her pregnancy is most certainly not a gift to you. Even the DVD's would be a stupid present if the limit is $50-100. She cheaped out and you have every right to be upset.
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    Newbosterone • 11h ago • NTA. When she has her baby shower, give her a Christmas card. It's as good as a gift, right?
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    anils90s 11h ago • NTA. She shouldn't have agreed to take part in the secret santa if she couldn't afford it. Taking part means she accepts the budget. The pregnancy reveal should have been an extra alongside it but not instead of.
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    Surround Miserable262 11h ago NTA. Your sister is out of line and owes you a present. If she hasn't corrected it by her birthday...get her a dvd box of her favourite tv show and put in a baby grow that has the picture of your face on it.
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    GardenSafe8519 • 11h ago • Take a picture of some cute baby clothes and give it to her (for her birthday if her birthday is before the birth..or give it at a baby shower). If she looks confused tell her you thought you were doing the not gift gift since you didn't get the DVDs...just a case.
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    CompetitionOdd1746 • 8h ago I love this. A photo of a gift they'd like instead of the actual item! Soooo petty, it's a marvellous idea.
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    You're NTA OP. That "gift" was for everyone, you didn't get one that was just for you like your sister and the rest of the family. Such a cop out. Use the money you'd spend on a gift for her on yourself and do the photo option above if you want to give her something.
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    OkSeaworthiness6960 OP • 14h ago This genuinely made me laugh out loud yeah I see lots of babysitting in my future, her boyfriend is a piece of sh and they've broken up and gotten back together like three times. in the last few years.

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