25-year-old man insists on traveling solo after GF forgets her passport: 'I wasn't going to miss out on a trip just because she planned poorly'

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    AITAH for going on a trip without my girlfriend since she forgot her passport?
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    My girlfriend (23F) and I (25M) planned a week-long trip overseas in Japan during this winter. I reminded her the day before we left a few days ago to remember to pack her passport and she said she would. Anyway, the first airport we left from (the airport in our home town) was domestic meaning it only served flights in our country, the United
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    States, so we both just showed our state IDs for that and flew through just fine. When we were checking in for the second flight though, the international one, (we booked tickets for the two flights separately for some reason) they asked to see her passport. She said she didn't have it and told me she realized midway during the first flight that she forgot to pack it. Since we were far away
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    from our home she couldn't just go home quickly to grab her passport. We were both obviously upset but I checked in anyway and told her that I'll still go without her. She got upset and asked me why I'd abandon her over a simple mistake and I told her that I wasn't going to miss out on a trip just because she planned poorly. I told her that
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    since we had a mutual friend (24M) who lived in the city we were in currently and she could ask him if she could stay with him and explore for a week, and then I'd catch her when flying back and we'd go home. She agreed but was still upset because she wanted to spend New Years' with me.
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    A few hours ago | FaceTimed her and we talked for a bit and our friend joined in the call and said he was shocked I'd abandon her like that and that he was disappointed in me. My girlfriend agreed with him. Am I really a bad boyfriend for still going on this trip? Like, if I chose to not go anyway it wouldn't even be benefiting her at all really, it would only be hurting me. AITAH for this?
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    1 Why can't she fly home, get the passport, and meet you in Japan? ETA: I'm in a position where this would just be an expensive mistake but everyone saying that she could just have her passport FedEx'd overnight to her and
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    rebook the Japan flight from the city she's already in makes much more sense, my bad. Still think the gf should just take the L and meet him in Japan though, if this is a legit post. They can always extend their trip by a few days.
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    She's misplacing her blame, as this person pointed out

    Professional_P... I mean if I was her I would be annoyed you went, but also like... I'd be annoyed at myself. If I was her and really thought about it, I wouldn't. want my partner to miss an international trip bc of my mistake. NTA
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    Squeezintheju... Who leaves the house on a international trip and doesnt check to see if they got your passport on the way out. Phone keys wallet passport lets go
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    Retot Honestly I dont think the relationship will survive this
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    Ambroisie_Cy I don't understand this kind of situation. My brain can't just comprehend how one would forget their passport... Maybe I'm too much of an anxious person, but this is the kind of thing I double/triple check before leaving home. This, my phone and my wallet.
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    I really don't understand how she managed to forget it? NTA. You reminded her not once, but twice. She still forgot, when she should have put the passport right into her bag the first time you reminded her.
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    What was she expecting from you? To miss on a beautiful trip because she can't take care of a simple task? Would she have reimbrused you? For next time, being this forgetfull means she should organises herself better and make a checklist before leaving the house. It helps a lot with the mental load as well.
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