Woman demands that sister change her 4-year old dog's name, "Charlie," after naming her newborn the same thing, family mounts pressure to "keep the peace"

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    AITA for refusing to "demote" my dog after my sister gave her baby the same name?

    Emily pulled me aside during a family gathering and said it was "confusing and disrespectful” for me to keep calling my dog Charlie now that her son has the same name. She asked me to rename my dog.
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    I (26F) have a dog named Charlie. Charlie is a golden retriever I adopted four years ago, and he's my best buddy. My sister, Emily (29F), recently had her first child-a baby boy. She and her husband named him... Charlie.
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    At first, I thought it was funny and didn't really think much of it. But then Emily pulled me aside during a family gathering and said it was "confusing and disrespectful" for me to keep calling my dog Charlie now that her son has the same name. She asked me to rename my dog.
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    I told her no. Charlie has been his name for four years; he knows it, responds to it, and it's on all his paperwork. Changing it would be weird for him (and for me). She got really upset and said it's not fair for her son to "share" a name with a dog, especially in family settings. She thinks it'll lead to jokes and confusion as her son grows up.
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    My parents have weighed in, and while my dad says it's ridiculous to expect me to change my dog's name, my mom says I should "just consider it" to keep the peace. Now Emily's barely speaking to me, and a few family members think I'm being stubborn. I have no idea how I am in the wrong here. The worlds gone crazy.
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    I love my dog, and I didn't name him to spite anyone. I also think it's not my fault they chose a name already in use in the family. AITA?
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    Glory-of-the-80s There was a post years ago about a guy who had a cat named Nigel and his sister (or roommate?) started dating someone named Nigel so they called the cat Nigel and the guy Human Nigel.
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    vmt_nani "Human Charlie" was the first thing I thought, but couldn't think why.... LoL
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    HellsBelle8675 Dog Charlie and Baby Charlie seems like a perfectly reasonable solution.
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    Eldritch Macaron It's not only cute but it could lead to a great bond between the two Charlies
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    Traffic-East Honestly most little kids would be wildly excited to share a name with a beloved pet friend.
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    EfficientFish_14 My husband's uncle has the same name as our cat. Cat came with the name. No one has been confused when I talk about either of them.
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    CyberneticPanda They can play a party game called "Dog Charlie or Human Charlie" where someone tells a story and people vote on which one the story is about.
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    Tishers Suggest that she changes her son's name to Spot or Rover.
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    weirdplacetogoonfire Adopt a second dog, name it Emily.
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    primordial_chaos_007 Your dog was Charlie first I'd never change the name, and if dear sis keeps on giving too much grief, I'd start telling people at gatherings that sis named nephew after your doggo.
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    Longjumping-Bat696 It would definitely be a funny way to reclaim some control over the situation while showing how much you loved your dog.
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    Boomer050882 Charlie the dog is already "Charlie". It shouldn't be. a big deal. Baby Charlie doesn't care, only the parents do. If it was a problem, they could have easily prevented it. You NTA.
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    Rougefarie Exactly! If Emily was going to be bothered by it, she wouldn't have named her kid the same as her sister's dog.
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    Effective-Award-8898 If Emily is barely speaking to you then the problem solves itself.
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    Equivalent-Wealth-63 An old friend told me of this time when he was confronted by a cousin asking how long he and his brother were going to keep up this no talking to each other feud, and he didn't even know there was a feud. He just thought things between them were more peaceful than usual.
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    Professional-Poet176 The dog came before the baby and your sister can still name her son "Charles" and go by some other nickname. If she doesn't want her son to be confused with the dog she could just name him something else.
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    Deb_elf NTA. And I'm so sick of people burning family members for the golden child in the name of "keeping the peace." No. You didn't disrupt the peace so you get a pass. Tell Charlie (your precious pup) I said hi
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    Affectionate Pay7395 NTA If your sister didn't want her son to be called the same name as a dog she probably shouldn't have given him the same name as the dog

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