'I made it 100% clear that I want kids and I want to start a family': Wife continually avoids "kids" conversation, husband says she's leading him on

When you are choosing the person you want to spend the rest of your life with, there are many beliefs that have to align between the two of you for it to work. Maybe it's family dynamics. Maybe it's traditional values. Maybe it's the way you act when you go to the airport. The bottom line is that opposites may attract, but you have to agree on the important things for a relationship to work.

For a lot of these conversations, it depends on the couple and what is most important to them to decide what is a dealbreaker and what can be compromised. However, the one topic that needs to be universally discussed is whether or not you and your partner want to have children. One man talked about his struggles with his wife of three years because she is still skirting the conversation about having kids. This man really wants children and has explicitly told his wife that on many occasions. Here, he asks for advice on how to approach the situation with his wife. Is he right to think that she led him on? Or should he have figured this out with her well before they got married? Follow along to decide.

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